Just in cases you are unaware, a threesome is a group sex involving three people. Altogether, members of the threesome can be engaging in sexual acts with one another, or one person can be the assigned center of attention. It’s not like the regular sex you’d normally have because there are more people to think about and therefore there’s more involved. Here are some good ideas to help your first threesome go smoothly:
Convincing someone to have a threesome
It is important that you convince your wife, husband, girlfriend or boyfriend to have a threesome before you commit to it. This can be quite difficult, but if you begin by getting your partner interested in fantasizing about engaging in a threesome, you’ll have a lot easier task at hand. Just tell them how fun it would be to involve another person, and get them thinking about the event just as much as you are.
Finding another partner
Moving forward, you have to look for another partner who is agreeable to join you in bed. This is quite complicated , but it‘s certainly not impossible. Perseverance is the key to make this fantasy happen. Go on dating sites or put up a personal ad on Craigslist, and see who you might find. Be upfront about the idea of the threesome though, so your new partner knows what they’re getting into.
Setting the threesome mood
You have to create a mood which all your partners would enjoy. Velvety mood lights and music will definitely set the atmosphere. You have to understand that this may be more stimulating in fantasy than in real life, so don‘t have too high of expectations. Be realistic.
The sex with three people
If you’re a man, one option you have to start the sex is to ask your partners (let’s assume they’re both women) if they can explore each other while they’re being watched. Soon after, you have to wait until the time that they want you to join them. You cannot be selfish in this deal because you have to be open letting your partners enjoy and have fun with one another as well as having fun with you. Another option you can have is a threesome with two men and one woman. The woman can be the focus while the other two men will participate equally in the threesome. If this happens, both men should begin to please the woman until she gets ready to please them. Women take longer to please, so it’s best to start with her.
Dealing with jealousy in a threesome
A lot of people get jealous once they have a threesome, especially if it’s an otherwise monogamous relationship. As long as you establish the rules, respect each others’ limits, be giving as you can, be safe and share sex between the three of you, then nothing can go wrong. Just don't get too much excited and lose track of the partners. All partners should be sexually satisfied and, even if you have achieved climax first, you still have to do your duty of bringing your other two partners to reach their orgasm.
What to do when it’s all over
After all the action, you may go to bed with your partners. But you have to keep in mind that it’s not a serious relationship that you will keep. It is recommended that the third person shouldn't stay and sleep over. It may seem like an awesome idea to have it regularly, but engaging on this sexual activity for a long time may result to absolute chaos. You always have to be encouraging to your significant other and keep in mind that it’s purely an experiment for pleasure and excitement purposes. Share to your partner how he/she turns you on, that seeing him/her being delighted by another man/woman stirred you up, and that moment when you had the ultimate sexual experience, there's no one else for you but your partner. Your partner should always be your main concern. By making him/her reassured, you will definitely enjoy more threesome escapades in the future.
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