Distance often makes the heart grow fonder, but it can make other body parts, well, a little lonely. Often in a long distance relationship, people lose a bit of the sexual atmosphere that they have in person, which could lead to something as serious as a breakup. So here are 5 simple tips that’ll help you move into the 21st century to intensify your long distance sexual relationship:
Chat in a sexy way
Use Instant Messaging to stay in touch - it’s free! Schedule a time with your love and send each other racy short messages to keep your relationship juicy, or use an attached microphone to use your bedroom voice to lure him into your sexy web. Cyber foreplay can be just as dirty and arousing as the live version if you do it right.
Be a little crafty…
Try making some visual puzzle pleasures to surprise him. Take a picture of yourself in sexy lingerie, transfer onto poster board, and cut out simple puzzle shapes. Gather up all the puzzle pieces, put in a satin sachet bag or other semi-small bag with draw string, cinch up and tie. Hang a small tag with a spicy written message to him. When he gets to his destination, he will assemble your puzzle as fast as possible. You’re sure to surprise him with your sizzling creativity.
Leave a sexy present for your partner
Before he zips up his bag, secretly slip a slinky piece of your sexiest lingerie into his bag. When he arrives to his destination and opens his bag - a little surprise will be there to remind him of you. It gives him something to hold onto during your sexy chats, and it often lets him fantasize about how great you look in it. Talk about arousal!
Text your way to sex
Whip out your IPhone, Blackberry, or other smart mobile phone and send quick spicy texts to your love. Here are some titillating examples to start you on the right track: * HT4U (Hot for you) * MU (Miss you) * IOHIS4U (I only have eyes for you) * IPN (I’m posting naked) * KOL (Kiss on lips) * SNOC (Sitting naked on chair) * JKM (Just kiss me) * IWUN (I want you now) * DD (Dirty dreams) * DTHTS (Dirty thoughts) * HDTHTSU (Having dirty thoughts of you) * TD2M (Talk dirty to me) * TOU (Thinking of you)
Use a Web Cam for some live action
Create an atmosphere next to where you might have your web cam so what he will see is you surrounded by candlelight in sexy lingerie, or in your birthday suit. Recreate an experience you both can enjoy, or perform a saucy striptease and have him thinking only of you when he goes into his next board meeting. He will not be able to think of anything, but getting home to YOU.
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