Having a partner with a pre-ejaculation problem is not fun, and it’s not always easy to deal with., However, that doesn’t mean that you can’t still have sex with this person. It’s all in how you approach matters. Before you call it quits and look for a most usable dick, try reading some of the tips below and apply them to your life.
Have more sex
This probably sounds ridiculous because if the sex is bad at first, you’re not going to want to have it again. However, if you let your partner cum once, it will take him a lot longer to cum a second time. His sensitivity will decrease and he won’t have as much of a build up to address. The best thing to do is give him a blow job and tell him that you don’t want to cum until round number two. If you approach this in a sexy way, he’ll get totally aroused and be ready to go again in no time. Then you’ll have something hard to play around with for a little bit.
Have him let you cum first
If your partner cums too quickly, see if he is willing to go down on you for a bit so you can orgasm first. If you get all of your climaxing out first, you can better address his needs and you won’t be disappointed if he goes in 30 seconds. Otherwise you’ll be left out a bit. Let him know that you are only doing this so that you both get joy out of the bedroom. There’s no harm in that.
Learn to masturbate
This can be done before, during or after sex, but at some point you have to relieve yourself. If you let things build, chances are you are going to get frustrated and lash out on your partner. You don’t want to cause a fight, do you need to learn how to bring yourself joy. You know your body and you know what to do with it, so just change your bedroom time accordingly.
Go see a doctor
If all else fails, go talk to a doctor about the issue and see what he or she can prescribe. There very well may be a drug that is perfect for your partner and will significantly improve his ability to keep things up and running. Discuss the exact issues with the doctor, including the average amount of time it take for your partner to cum. That way the doctor can best assess the situation.
Just live with it
In the end, you’ll probably just have to grin and bear it. If the lack of good sex is too much for you. Get out early. Don’t stay in and potentially get too attached. If you are attached, don’t consider that a bad thing. You may have just fallen in love with someone who can’t totally satisfy you. Look at the positive times in the relationship and focus on them.
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