You boys love your blow jobs don’t you. Something about oral sex in general is often better than other forms of sex. It feels better, it’s more arousing, it’s easier to control…that is, if your girl does a good job. Sadly, there are far too many women out there with blow job deficiencies. They can’t suck to save their lives, and they make the whole situation almost regrettable. Have no fear though. You can help out. Here are some tips to get your girl to be a better blower.
The approach
You probably can’t just come out and tell her she sucks. That will not only seem rude, but it will make her never want to blow you again. Instead of bringing her self esteem down, you need to approach things in a hypothetical way. You might bring up something that you are into like, “Hey, I was talking to a buddy of mine today about this girl he’s with. Didn’t think about this, but he said she nibbles at his balls during their blow jobs. Huh, weird I know. We should try it sometime just to see what it’s like. Might feel good, who knows?” If you bring it up to be a story, rather than a command, you will have a much better success rating overall.
Point out your sweet spot
You know you have one - that spot in the shaft of your dick that makes you twinge a bit when it gets played with. Ya, that one. She doesn’t know where that is unless you tell her! Trust me, if a girl is giving you a bad blow job it is because she is totally unsure of your anatomy. You have to point things out. This might be another good chance for a hypothetical. You could be talking about your sex and tell her how it feels good when this spot hits in her just right. A simple gesture will go a long way.
Tell her when she does well
Master the saying “That feels good.” Women need to hear that so they can respond to it. The same goes in sex or anything else. If she’s doing a good job, acknowledge that. Tell her that it feels good. She will be able to do a much better job if she knows what makes you tick. Even the occasional “I love it when you do that” will do wonders.
Physically guide her
When all else fails, grab her head and be a conductor. Hold her hair back and show her how it’s done. Some women actually like being guided like this, or they at least respect what you are doing. She should get the hint quickly and be a willing sex toy for your entertainment.
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