There is no one sexier than that mysterious shy guy that sits behind you in math class. You know that he notices you but he doesn’t say much and he’s way too shy to make a move. If you’re trying to figure out a way to hit on a shy guy without coming on too strong, take a look at the methods below.Approach HimIf there is a shy man at your work or in your class that you are attracted to (and you’re pretty sure he feels the same), don’t hesitate to approach him. He might be too nervous to initiate contact with you so there is nothing wrong with making that first move. You don’t have to approach him and start hitting on him, just start talking to him about something to spark a conversation. If you start talking about personal topics too quickly then he will probably be uncomfortable, so talk about casual topics (work, school, a funny joke, etc.). Talk To Him RegularlyIf you talk to him on a regular basis he will begin to be more comfortable around you and you can connect more on a personal level. At this point you can start to get to know him, ask him about his hobbies, interests, aspirations, family, and other casual-personal topics. Still, don’t ask him out on a date; if he gets to know you he will feel comfortable enough to ask you out, and it’s better to allow him to think that he came up with the idea of dating. Plus, if you ask him out he might feel like you’ve stripped him of his masculinity. Catch Him In His ElementTry to meet up with him in a place where he is in his element because he will be more talkative, comfortable, and confident. If you catch him off-guard when he’s out of his element then he might act awkward and he probably won’t make a move. However, if you find him when he is comfortable and at ease then he will feel more confident and he is more likely to make a move on you. This is especially true if you are there to witness him doing something that he is really good at because that gives him the opportunity to show off in front of you.Compliment HimEven a shy guy loves to have his ego stroked every once in a while. When you witness him doing something that he is good at, compliment him on it. Complimenting him will show him that you pay attention to him and you have noticed his good qualities. Point out something he’s good at will make him elaborate on that specific talent, which will allow you to get to know him better.Make Him LaughLaughing with him will quicken the bond between the two of you, plus he will enjoy talking to you more if you have a good sense of humor. If you make jokes then he will feel more comfortable making jokes as well, and men love to see women laugh at their jokes. If he sees that you find him amusing he will come out of his shell more easily. Initiate Physical ContactIn the midst of a conversation with him, put your hand on his back or shoulder. By doing this you are showing him that you want to touch him, and he will probably be more affectionate to you in return. Give him a hug when you see him or when he is leaving because touching creates a sense of intimacy between the two of you. Ask Him For HelpMen love helping women because it makes them feel like strong, dominant providers. Ask him for help with homework, your computer, your car, reaching something that’s too high up, carrying something heavy, etc. It doesn’t matter what you ask him to help you with. Having him help you out will allow you guys to connect and it will allow you to spend extra time with him as well.
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