Most people around are aware of tantric sex. It received a huge amount of publicity when Sting went on record and announced that he’d had tantric sex for twelve hours straight. The whole world sat up and took notice. Contrary to the popular belief, tantric sex is not only about unusually long sex sessions, tantra is about understanding sex and achieving intimacy emotionally as well as physically and reviving a connection with the divine. You need this information to start introducing tantric sex to your partner. Here are some tips to help you get your partner involved in tantric sex:
How to introduce the idea about tantric sex
Begin obliquely. Start talking about intimacy, about sharing your innermost thoughts and desires. This is a safe zone and it arouses interest and curiosity in the partner, who may think tantric sex as kinky or even bizarre. Talk about the aims and goals of tantra. Its methods are secondary. Remember you need your partner to be less defensive and more receptive about this method of love making. When you introduce tantra, talk about the massages, the oils and the touching. This is a more secure level, and every one loves a massage. Stress on the emotional bonding that tantra brings to the relationship so you’re your partner does not think that this is just another way to get her into bed.
Giving your partner new incentive
Tell your partner that celebrities like Sting have actually announced that they practiced it. Well, if the partner is a huge fan of Sting, you will have won the argument. If not, at least she knows that some one well known is into it and that helps making her feel its normal. Just slip this in, casually.
Keeping the conversation going
Do not jump into bed immediately to give a demonstration. Keep the topic at a conversational level. Discuss the topic with her and suggest that you would like to explore it. That is hint enough. You may have piqued her interest. Giving your partner some tantric reference manualsInvite your partner to read a book about Tantric sex. There are many books available online at Amazon and Barnes and Nobles. Most of the well written books on tantric sex are thorough exploring the religious, philosophical and physical aspects of tantra. Once you find one you both like, you can order it.The best part about books on the internet is that most of them are available for download and you can start reading it immediately.
Searching for tantric information online
You could visit websites on tantric sex. A useful tip is to not type the word sex in the search box while searching for a site, so that you avoid porn which might put your partner off. Most good sites cover the philosophical and spiritual aspects of tantra too, so the physical poses become just another angle to explore.
Starting the tantric session
Once you have done this, you could start with your first tantric session. Of course once your partner starts participating you could take it to the next level by buying an instructional video. That would teach you both a lot more about this entirely wonderful form of love making. Feel free to experiment along the way and see where it takes you…
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