In most every relationship there is always the fear of loosing your partner to another person. There are so many predators looking to just have a fling or a one night stand. Having doubt that your partner has been unfaithful can ruin a relationship. There are ways to keep your relationship alive and your partner focused on you and no one else. Here are some tips that may help:
Staying interested in your partner
To ensure that your lover doesn't stray, you first must be interested in their work, hobbies, likes and dislikes. Whatever your partner does, you do it too. If your partner likes to play golf, then learn how to golf with them. When your partner is working, be aware of what project they are working on and talk about it with them. Not only are you his lover, but you also need to be his best friend. Learn to be open and honest and keep the lines of communication going. If you don't seem interested in their life, your partner may find someone else who is. Do as many things you can together.
Respecting your partner
Treat your partner like you would like to be treated. Give them love, respect and security. Do things for your mate daily that shows how much you love them. When your mate is sad or sick, take care of them like you would a child. Baby them and shower them with attention. You will be proving to your love that you are the best at making them feel better. No one else can comfort them as well as you do.
Using your time with your partner wisely
Always remember those special times you've shared and reflect on them often. On your partner’s birthday, plan a party with friends and family. When it is the anniversary of when you two met, when you first were intimate or when you got married, give your partner a special gift of love from the heart like jewelry or flowers. Talk about all the fun you two have had together and how much you enjoy being with them. Tell your mate you your looking forward to spending the rest of your life with them. Talk about your plans for future vacations, birthdays and even your retirement together. Make it known that your plans are to be together permanently.
Keeping the spark in your relationship
Most importantly keep your love life alive and exciting. Give your mate what they want and when they want it. Make intimacy a top priority and a part of your daily activities. Think up new ways to entice your partner and satisfy their every need. Try out new sexual positions, role play, watch a porn, get wild and crazy. Make your intimate time together memorable and keep your mate coming back for more. Spend the night pleasing each other over and over. Be romantic by spreading rose petals on the bed and drinking champagne together. Do little things to surprise your lover and be mysterious so they never know what to expect. You have to keep them interested sexually or they may find sex with someone else more exciting. Make it a challenge for them to conquer you sexually.
Maintaining trust with your partner
Trust is a key ingredient in any relationship. You must have trust in your partner in whatever they do. You’re making a big mistake if you question your mate constantly. Don't play the "Where were you and who were you talking to" game. No one likes to be interrogated when they haven't done anything wrong. Unless you have proof of your mate doing something you don't approve of, never point the finger and accuse them. If you find out your mate has hid something from you, let them give you an explanation of why they have done what they did. Listen to them, discuss the problem then forgive them and move on. If you push a hurtful issue, you create a problem and your mate may choose to shut themselves off form you. Be forgiving and understanding and show your mate that you love them no matter what. Give your mate your love unconditionally with no strings attached.
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