In the present day, infidelity seems to be anything but uncommon. Men and women do not engage in an affair for the same reasons; men usually do it for the physical pleasure and women do it because of underlying reasons. If you love your wife and you want to make sure that she does not stray, use some of the preventative methods listed below.
Make Her Feel Appreciated
Particularly after marriage, a family, a mortgage, car payments, etc., a woman has the tendency to feel like a housekeeper rather than a sexy lady. Nobody does it on purpose but sometimes life just catches up to you and there’s hardly room for any romance. If a woman feels bored and unappreciated by the man in her life, infidelity seems like a smart solution, particularly if the passion seems unredeemable. Let her know on a regular basis that you don't know what you'd do without her, and spontaneously send her flowers or a card to reiterate your feelings. Have her come home from work one night to a candlelight dinner, or wake her up with breakfast in bed. You don't have to do anything too extreme, even simply greeting her with a hug, kiss, and "I missed you," will show her that you appreciate her.
Give Her Attention
If a woman feels like she is not getting attention in her relationship, attention from an outsider can be very seductive. If a woman does not feel like she has that sexual-emotional connection with her significant other anymore then she naturally is going to seek it elsewhere. A simple compliment from a man may make her want to rip her clothes off right then and there. Being a provider is not enough, a woman needs someone that wants to jump her bones. Although you might figure that she knows how sexy you think she is, make sure that you actually tell her! Initiate sex and make her feel like you still crave her the same way that you did when you first met. Send her a dirty text during the day to let her know what you'd like to do to her. When the two of you go out make sure she knows that she is the most beautiful girl in the room.
Try To Eliminate Her Insecurities
Her man may want her, but does anyone else? Having an affair may confirm that she still has "it." Sometimes a lack of self esteem is the result of relationship problems, but other times it is just an unresolvable inner issue. You cannot make her grow a self esteem but you can try to boost the one she has by pointing out how young and beautiful she is. When you're out together you can even point out how other men are checking her out so then she doesn't feel the need to explore her level of attractiveness to other men. Don't stare down other women in front of her and don't talk about how hot other women (even famous ones) are. However, do feel free to tell her that Megan Fox has nothing on her.
Don't Cheat On Her
Revenge sex is as popular as ever so don't give her a reason to engage in it. Not only will cheating on her destroy her self-esteem but it will give her grounds to get back at you. If you have been unfaithful then she might think that cheating on you will get rid of the feeling that she isn't good enough. She will feel like your infidelity justifies her own, and the only way to hurt you in the same way that you hurt her is to cheat. No matter how fed up you get in your relationship, do not cheat on her. It's better to leave her then to sneak around behind her back.
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