Gentlemen, if you have ever dated, had a “casual relationship” or been in a relationship, women can often be hard to read. However, here are a few tips that may help you determine which you are in.
Have you your girlfriend’s the family?
First, you should be aware that women in relationships rely on their friends and family to help her decide how far the relationship will go. If you have been “together” for more than 6 months and have not met her friends or family, you are not in a relationship with this woman. This is a long term fling.
How often do you have sex?
Second, sexual intercourse is no guarantee of a relationship. In fact, this can be an indicator of a long-term fling. If you are not “allowed” to spend the night because she has to work early, you need to start thinking like a man. She may have to work, but she doesn’t want you in her bed either.
How many times have you broken up?
Next, multiple “break up” can also be a telling sign. She breaks up with you every time work gets hectic or a family event rolls around on the calendar. If you spend more time breaking up than you do in the “relationship”, chances are good that you are not in a real relationship.
So you guys share your thoughts and possessions?
Also, most couples share things with each other (and I’m not just talking about her wearing your T-shirts). They share even the most menial things in there lives. So, if you find yourself not really knowing much about your lady’s day-to-day life, there is probably a reason.
Do you have anything at her house?
Finally, a long-term fling will not be allowed to leave personal items behind in her place of residence. This will be a huge teller. If she makes sure that all your belongings leave with you, do not take this as her being considerate or sweet, this is making sure that the two of you never get to a place where you are in a relationship.
What kind of emotion is in the relationship?
Although this all seems complicated, a relationship is much more so. However, with a relationship there is the benefit of stability. In a relationship, she will want you to be around her family and want to spend time with her. A relationship also has a natural course to fall into moving in together, settling down, and eventually getting married. If she is not even allowing you to spend the night, you are a long way from a relationship. You should also understand that unlike a relationship, a long-term fling does not have the advantage of faithfulness. This means that both of you can be dating other people as well. Relationships, while also require passion, have love and warm affection. A fling does not require this same emotion.
Quit asking yourself questions and ask her
Overall, these are just signs. The only real was to know if you are in a relationship or a fling is to ask her. Be open and up front about what you want. If she doesn’t have the same desires, she isn’t the girl for you anyway.
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