When you've been with someone for a long time it's hard to come to terms with the fact that you're over him. You make excuses for all of the reasons why he annoys you, and you try to tell yourself that you're just stressed. If you're wondering if you're just going through a rough patch or you're really over your boyfriend, take a look at this list for help.
Everything He Does Annoys You
One of the sure signs that you're over your boyfriend and ready to break up is when everything he does starts to annoy you – even those cute little habits that used to make you smile. You will want to just snap at him every time he says something, does something, doesn't say something, snores too loud, sneezes too much, etc. Some of the things that you get annoyed about might even be relatively irrational, just because he is starting to get on your nerves overall.
You Are Always Mad At Him
When you're over your boyfriend you will find that everything he does seems to make you mad. You will snap at him over the smallest matters and you won't even feel bad about it. You'll convince yourself that he's just trying to piss you off on purpose, and you will continue to get more aggravated. You will notice that you just feel irritated and aggrivated at him most of the time.
You Are Repulsed By Him
When you would rather have a root canal than have sex with your boyfriend, chances are you're ready for the relationship to come to an end. It's normal to not be in the mood sometimes but it is not normal to feel repulsed by the very thought of having sex with him. You should feel attracted to him and you should want him to touch you, so if that desire is slipping away then you shouldn't look past it.
You Would Rather Spend Time With Other People
It's normal to want to spend time with friends but it's not normal to want to spend time with friends just so you can spend time away from your boyfriend. If no activity sounds exciting when it is just you and your boyfriend, there is probably a deeper reason for this. You just cannot stand to spend time with your boyfriend alone because you're bored and he gets on your nerves, other people at least take away from some of that annoyance.
Other Men Seem Appealing
Even if you're happy in a relationship your eyes might wander sometimes, but this is a different feeling. Any guy that seems interested in you is intriguing and you actually want to see how far you can take it. You start to picture yourself with other men and compare these men to your current boyfriend – usually you find more positive traits in the other men.
You Don't Look Forward To His Phone Calls
When you first started dating you lived for the moments that he would call you – now, it's sort of irrelevant to you. You used to get mad at him when he didn't call but now you just don't care. In fact, sometimes it is annoying for you because he interrupts other phone calls or activities.
You Don't Get Jealous Anymore
Before if you thought about your partner with another woman, you would have flipped out. Now, you really don't care. In fact, if he cheated on you it might actually give you a good reason to break up with him. If he says another girl is hot, it does not affect you in any way because you know that you're hot too. You're not longer intimidated by his close female friend (who is gorgeous), and you're just totally indifferent.
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