Things are just not what they seem these days. She tells you something, but it is entirely different from what she’s thinking. People can be manipulative and tend to hide their true intentions. It would be wise to know these signals to determine if your date is really being honest with you before you give out any more information. It could save you from a lot of hurt and save you time and effort. It also gives you a heads up as to what character the person possesses and how to go about dealing with that person. So here are some tips to help you figure out if your date is lying or not:
Listen to their answers
If your date answers you differently each time you ask the same question, then you can automatically identify them as a liar. A truthful answer demands only one honest information, no matter how you present the answer or how many times you ask the question. A truthful person will never change their story.
Watch the way your date moves
If you see that your date is constantly moving in her place and just can’t seem to keep still, then she’s probably fidgeting for a reason. If she really isn’t comfortable with you, then most likely she will be giving out false answers. Watch to see if she can’t wait to get out of there. This shows that she has no general interest in you, and the sooner she leaves the place, the sooner she could get you out of her life. Your date will not be wasting time giving you personal information if she thinks it would be useless because she doesn’t plan on seeing you anymore.
Monitor the person’s eye contact
If your date can’t seem to keep eye contact or avoids looking at you every time you ask her something, it maybe because she’s lying to you. They say that the eyes are the mirror of the soul, and looking at you might give her away, as well as her true intentions. Her mouth maybe saying something, but her eyes hide if she’s really being sincere. A truly sincere and honest person will look you directly in the eyes and assure you that she’s telling the truth.
Look for vague or hesitant answers
See if your date talks in superlatives, meaning that every time you ask your date about something like her job or where she lives, she answers you that she’s the manager of something or she owns the biggest place in the block. One good part about this person is he’s trying to impress you and wants to show his best foot forward. But lying is lying, and even if she lies about something small, there’s nothing that will potentially stop her from lying about something big. If your date hesitates and takes time to answer your questions, then she is probably pondering a lie. Thinking about what you’re going to say is a good move in order to avoid misconceptions and miscommunication. But simple questions demand simple answers. If you ask a girl where she lives and she has a hard time answering it, that means that she’s not prepared to answer your question or she’s just plainly lying. Asking where she works should be like asking her to breathe; it is done impulsively and doesn’t require a whole lot of thinking. It isn’t like your asking her social security number or divulging a national secret. When you ask your date something like simple questions, the response should be simple answers.
One more thing to look for…
See if your date gets angry or defensive when you ask him simple questions like the ones mentioned above. Emotions are very powerful, and they are often expressed without the person controlling them. Say you ask your date if he’s married and he suddenly gropes for words and starts babbling, or he gets angry telling you that’s personal. Then you need to start thinking if he was really honest from the start. If he suddenly gets defensive, then definitely he’s hiding something…you might be dating a married guy.
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