He’s not as sweet as he used to be. He snaps on you on very trivial things. He has been mentally absent every time he’s with you. He has been excusing himself lately from your usual weekend dates and getaways. You always thought love was a bed of roses, but now you realize that it’s not. You ask yourself why this is happening to you, of all people. You know you have been the most awesome girlfriend a guy could have, and yet you are being treated coldly. It’s time for you to do something and stop being a martyr, and you should act now before it’s too late to know if you’re going to be dumped.
He starts a lot of fights with you
If he always starts fights with you, a dump might be coming. Even though you have known your guy to be the most patient and understanding person in the world, it seems like recently, you two always end up arguing. I know that arguing is inevitable in a relationship, but if you fight over petty things not worth fighting about, be cautious. It may mean that he is starting to make himself look bad in your eyes.
He won’t call you
If he contacts you less frequently than he used to, he may be planning an exit. You may have a long distance relationship or not, but back at one point in time, hearing you voice and laughter meant the whole world to him. Have you noticed how his phone calls, e-mails, text messages or even letters dwindled down in frequency over the past weeks or months? Have you noticed the lack of interest or how his calls to you have become abridged versions ,and he always want to hang up on you after 10 minutes unlike your 1 hour chats that he always looked forward to? These are all signs of a possible break up in the near future.
He doesn’t show up to your dates
If he fails to show up or remember your dates, it means he‘s starting to lose interest. Be alert when you’re beginning to look dumb when he fails to show up on you while you’re waiting for him in your favorite restaurant, when it’s supposed to be your 1st anniversary, or while you’re still waiting for him to fetch you 3 hours after your class ended or your work ended. When you confront him about it, does he seem evasive and make it look like it’s your fault that he never showed up or that it’s your fault that you didn’t remind him? It is not your fault, if your date was important to him; it is not needed for you to rub it in his face a hundred times, because he should prioritize your dates if you were significant to him. If he can’t remember your dates, chances are he’s planning on soon forgetting you.
He hangs out more often with his girl friends than you
If he is happier in the company other opposite sex other than you, you should be alarmed already. You don’t hang around your guy pals because you know it’s not nice to see and it might hurt your boyfriend, so it really would be ironic if he does this to you. This may mean that he has more enjoyment in the company of other female species. Enjoyment doesn’t mean pure, wholesome fun; you have to keep watch because there might be some unsolicited flirting going on.
He starts to tell lies and cheat on you
This lethal combination is a surefire way of making relationships crack to a million pieces that more often than not, it cannot work ever again. When he flirted with that girl pal of his, which led to an affair while you two are still together, and when you learn of this, your guy still claims himself as innocent as ever, even though your instinct, or the people around you, or the clues lead you to the conclusion that you are being lied to and cheated. It’s time to wake up. You just need to know when to let go and move on, and it doesn’t mean that you’re a loser if you get dumped, or that you’re a winner if you walk out of it before too much damage is done. It only means you are smart enough to know what you deserve, and girl, you deserve better. It isn’t the end of your life, being dumped or walking out before you get dumped only means you love yourself enough and that you can start your life again with a clean, new slate.
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