Everyone knows guys don't last nearly as long as they should once they enter a women's vagina, either for her pleasure or even his. Here are some tips to lasting longer when inside your women:
Masturbate a few hours before having sex. This will reduce the sensitivity of your penis and thus help you last longer before cumming.
Similarly using a condom, wile often complained about, because of reduced sensitivity can also help for the same reason as above.
Have your woman give you a blowjob or handjob, but not all the way to orgasm, and then avoiding further genital stimulate on you for a wile, by for example giving her oral, before intercourse. This is like edging (see below) and is designed to decrease penile sensitivity wile still having fun at it.
Slow down and loosen up when fucking. When guys are in the heat of the moment and going at it inside a women they tense up in expectation and start to feverishly pound away, faster and faster. This leads them to cum more quickly than they need to. Just try to stay calm in your moment of ardor, loosen up your muscles all over your body and go for using slow thrusting, which many women find far more stimulating than vary rapid thrusting anyway.
Related to the above is to use positions that give the women more control over the thrusting or involve pulling her toward you when you thrust instead of the more frenetically-prone pelvic thrusting. Good positions include cowgirl (for female control), pile driver and doggie (for reducing the guy's hip movement and replacing it with arm movement).
Brake up your thrusting routine by varying your pace, faster for a few seconds, then slower, maybe only one thrust per second or even less, then back to faster (still only 3-4 thrusts per second). Be sure to brake to kiss your women and caress her, especially when you feel like you could be coming closer to climax. This gives you a chance to use "edging," or pulling back before orgasm to last longer and increase the power of a man's climax.
Similarly to the above advice is to change position, perhaps as you approuch climax to add veriety and a momentary brake (wile you change positions).
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Lovestolick / 42 / Man / Likes Men / Single
One thing I'll do sometimes is mix oral with intercourse. When you get close, pull out, slide down and munch for 30 - 60 seconds and then resume! Repeat when necessary. Helps me last longer AND increases the chances we climax together! Double bonus!
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Andy, in my experience "edging" does not make you last longer when it comes to having intercourse. By the time you have edged or been edged it makes you hyper sensitive and so when you begin intercourse an orgasm is inevitable.
You are absolutely right though in what you say about the eventual orgasm being very intense.
However i will just add that "edging" itself can last for many hours/days and can be extremely enjoyable if not irritating, but thats another subject completely ;-)
Ivebeenlimp42long / 54 / Man / Likes Women / Married
only problem with this stopping and starting is i lose my erection and then sometimes it's difficult to get it back
GG · It's better, when starting out trying the technique, to not leave a massive pause between stop and start. The more you get used to it the longer the gap you can have :-)
Ivebeenlimp42long · it does not work for me i can take a 100mg viagra and i still can't last any longer and starting and stopping no matter how short or long of a pause in between doesn't help
GG · We had similar problems but my husband only used to take 50mg. Luckily for us he has managed to overcome his problem, which was a mental issue all along.
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