It doesn’t matter if the gift is for Christmas, a birthday or just for the hell of it, sometimes you want to offer more to your partner than just a sing along card and a Wal-Mart gift certificate. A lot of times, you might just want to send your partner a sexy signal that they might not get otherwise. Whatever the occasion or reason behind the gift, here are some tips to get your partner all horny right after he or she rips off the wrapping paper.
What does arouse your partner?
This may seem like a dumb question, but you have to figure out what your partner is into. Some guys, for instance, love lingerie, but others think it’s a waste of money. If your partner has a certain fetish, you will need to find that out ahead of time because that could dictate your gift later on. Every person has that one thing that just gets them in the mood. Learn that trigger in your partner so you can respond to it.
Getting the gift
Where you get the gift will likely be determined by what kind of gift you want to get, but there are still some things you have to consider. You’ll want to make sure that the gift remains a sexy surprise, so you can’t go some place that you will likely run into your partner at. If this is unavoidable, at least pick a time of day that is going to allow you to bypass contact with one another, like when your partner is at work or out of town.
You also have the option to shop online, which I do feel is a good way to buy gifts. The only thing you have to be cautious of is the delivery. It’s really easy for your partner to accidentally answer the door and then the secret is ruined. There isn’t a great way to stop this, other than having the package delivered some time when you think the partner won’t be home. Worse comes to worse, just don’t let the partner answer the door and deal with whatever suspicions result.
A free or affordable gift idea
There is one really cheap option that you can go with, but it really only works for a girl giving a guy a gift. Ladies, all you have to do is get a thong of yours or some sexy underwear he likes and wrap it up in a box with a note that says “I got myself ready. Ball’s in your court now tiger…” or something along those lines. You won’t even have to spend any money at all that way! You could include dirty pics of yourself for that little something extra. It’s totally up to you.
Final thoughts on gifts
The main thing you have to do is respond to your partner’s needs. As long as you understand the person’s sexual desires and respond to them, you should be set for an arousing night of fun.
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