For some women, this can seem like an endless, daunting task, but it shouldn’t have to be. At risk of sounding a little too unliberated, pleasing your partner should be a goal, not a chore. Here are a few tips to make this a little easier.
Be willing to respond to his sex drive
Men are pretty simple creatures. Most of them don’t require a whole lot of maintenance, but they do require far more sexual attention than some women are willing to put out and regardless of what you have been reading in your girly magazines, last time I checked it still takes two to tango. So, when in the bedroom, pleasing your partner should be your #1 goal.
Let him watch you undress
For the most part, men are more visually sensitive than women. They want to see and watch what you do to them. This turns them on. So, the next time you get undressed, leave the lights on. Make a striptease out of it. Let him watch you as you pleasure him. It may appear that his eyes are closed, but trust me he is watching. Also, get that hair out of the way, if you have to pull it up, but make sure he can see.
Be spontaneous
Whoever told you that you only have sex in the bedroom was crazy. Nothing will turn him on more than a romp in the living room or kitchen. Just make sure you have the “alone” time to get the job done. Trust me, nothing could be more embarrassing or scarring than having your in-laws or kids walk in on your mid-afternoon “playtime.”
Adjust to his fantasies
Most men, like it or not, fantasize. Why not give him something to fantasize about? As long as he respects you outside the bedroom, don’t get your panties all wound if he calls you a “dirty girl” or the like in the bedroom. Also, you don’t have to be a yoga instructor to be flexible. Do the positions that he likes or try new ones that work for both of you. Play with each other and have fun with it.
Do unto him as he would do unto you…
Don’t expect him to do anything you wouldn’t do. For starters, you don’t get to gripe about him not shaving his 5 o’clock shadow, if you aren’t going to shave your legs. Also, if you are not willing to pleasure him orally, what makes you think he is giving and not getting. So, to avoid this particular problem, try opening yourself up to new experiences. I’m not saying go crazy, dye you hair blond and make him call you ‘Gina’, but start out slow. Let him do things you refused to do before and do things to him you wouldn’t to do. It may be a little awkward at first, but ask him what he likes. He will, absolutely, help you through it and you may benefit greatly from the favors return.Let this be a learning experience for both of you. As long as you are both working toward pleasing each other, the rest should come naturally.
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I once heard a porn star say "Never deny your man of anything sexual and he'll never leave you." It's true
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