I have this girl I've been dating for a while now. She has only had sex with two guys and I don't want to scare her away but it's just too quite in the bedroom. She is not vocal at all and I don't want to scare her away. What can I do to help open up the verbal communication and get some dirty talk going in the bedroom.
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Dean / Woman / Likes Men / Single
a bottle of beer or glass of wine would help to start this converstion. start with the words "is it ok to ask . . . . ". tested many times already it really works
Arsenal2007 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
well that was vague..... I'm actually interested myself but didnt get that comment sorry, lol...... personally, MikeS... I usually let the girl know what I'm like in bed quite quickly so as to be on the "same page" sexually.... But I feel that dirty talk usually comes with the type of sex, or positions, you end up having..... If you start out doing "missionary", you'll generally have less "dirty" dialogue..... But, for example, if you end up going hard in her ass from behind, "porn" style, you'll soon find it easier to talk dirty as the action is "dirty", and it can almost become part of it and keeps your energy flowing.
Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Remember not everyone is comfortable being vocal in the bedroom. While alcohol may help, communication is always always key. If you really need her to be vocal, then ask her if she's interested in a little bit of dirty talk. Or even initiate the dirty talk yourself, she might play along!
Oneman123 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Start making out with her and kiss her everywhere and say somethin sexy that she would love to hear. After that touch her and take her clothes off and trust me she would talk as nasty as you want or maybe you should start talkin cuz every woman loves it when a man talks nasty and dominates her
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