Despite the fact that they usually make poor boyfriends, women seem to be attracted to bad boys. It’s an unsolved mystery as to why women are attracted to the bad boys. If you’re a woman that’s attracted to bad boys and you’re ready to break the habit, take a look at the methods below for some assistance.Write Down How He Has Wronged YouWriting down all of the mean things that he has done to you is necessary because it forces you to recollect those painful memories. Don’t pardon him for any of his actions or try to make excuses as to why he acted a certain way, just write it all down. Next to each item on the list, write down exactly how it made you feel. Even though you’ll probably get a huge knot in your stomach to by thinking about this stuff, it’s necessary because he won’t seem so appealing when you’re done. Realize How Happy You Could BeYou’re so used to worrying about everything that your boyfriend is doing, wondering if he is going to cheat on you again, waiting for him to call, etc., that you don’t even know what a normal relationship is like. If you were dating someone that was not a bad boy you could use your energy on more productive things than worrying about your boyfriend 24/7. Also, you would see what it was like to be treated like a lady, rather than like garbage. Picture Your FutureIt might be exciting at the beginning of a relationship to be with a bad boy but think about your future. Do you want to be married with children and have your husband walk out on you or sit at night and wonder if he is ever going to come home? Imagine the impact that a neglectful father has on children, do you really want that for your future kids? Eventually you’re going to want to settle down and have a normal life and a bad boy will never be able to give that to you.Realize You Won’t Change HimSometimes bad boys are appealing because they are misunderstood and need rescuing - and who better to rescue him than you? You probably have it in your head that he will change, settle down, be faithful, and grow up, but that’s probably not the case. You will not be able to change who he is. If he is a player then nothing you do is going to change that. Don’t date someone under the pretenses that you’re going to be able to change him because you will end up being very disappointed.Dismiss The Mindset That Nice Guys Are BoringYou probably have it in your head that nice guys are boring but that is a myth that has absolutely no supporting evidence. How are bad boys exciting? You mistake the feeling of insecurity and anxiety toward your boyfriend for some kind of excitement, so you think guys that won’t treat you bad are boring. It’s true that there are some nice guys that are boring but there are plenty that are not. Plus, you will never know what dating a nice guy is like if you don’t try it - give it a chance!Respect YourselfMore important than any other realization that you could have, you need to realize the importance of respecting yourself. You’re not a doormat and you shouldn’t allow a man to treat you like you are one. If you continue to date someone that continuously disrespects you then he is going to think that it’s okay to treat you that way and he will never stop. Have some self-respect, end the mistreatment, and realize that there are men out there that will respect you.
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Garnet / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Thank you so much for sharing this! I wrote down all the hurtful things that a certain guy has done to me and I realize that he's no good and I need to move on.
Takeastand / Man / Likes Men / Single
Itdnota Fu(kn mystery its because women figure that bad boys have a good chance of having a big penis or that they will just give you the sex that a good guy can't provide.
Mystery solved
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