How To Tell If He's Interested In You

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There is nothing more difficult than trying to decipher the mind of a man. Sometimes men throw mixed signals and you never know when he's trying to show that he's interested, and when he is just trying to be a friend. If you think that a man is interested in you but you're not quite sure, take a look at this list of signals.

He Tries To Be Funny

One of the best ways that a man knows how to impress a woman is with his sense of humor. When a guy is interested in you he will transform into a comedian, and he will look to you for approval after he makes a joke. If he sees that you're amused by his jokes then he will keep going as long as you're still laughing. Cracking jokes works for him for two reasons: he will impress you with his wit and sense of humor and he will also see if you seem to be into him. If you're laughing at all of his jokes (even the not so funny ones) then he will get the idea that you probably have a thing for him too, and he will keep the jokes coming.

He Talks In a Deep Voice

By instinct, women are attracted to men with deep voices. Therefore, when a man is interested in you he might try to talk in a deeper voice than usual. He will think that if his voice is deeper he seems more manly and thus more appealing to you. Not to mention, he wants you to think that he's strong and dominant.

He Acts Nervous & Fidgets

If a man is interested in you then chances are he is going to get nervous around you. Because the anxiety is pent up inside of him, he is going to fidget as a release. He might play around with his hands, stick them in his pockets, adjust his shirt, play with his hat, shred a napkin, rip a wrapper off of a drink, or anything else that he can do to keep from acting nervous. Sometimes when a man is nervous he might also have a hard time looking you straight in the eye. He might try to look past you or at the ground because looking you in the eyes gets overwhelming.

He Tries To Be Near You

When a man is interested in you he will go out of his way to try to be near you. If you go to a restaurant or a movie with a group friends, he will try to find a seat next to you. You will be able to tell that he is making a conscious effort to be near you. Not only will he try to be near you but he will also innocently touch you. He might put his hand on your shoulder, lightly on your back, your knee, he might give you a big hug, etc., it doesn't matter as long as your bodies are touching in some capacity.

He Wants To Help You

When a man is interested in you he will insist on lending a helping hand, even if you don't ask him to. He will notice little things like if your tire is flat, or if you need to lift something heavy. He will offer to do little favors for you such as picking you up if you're going out one night or dropping you off, even if it's out of his way. If your mom needs help putting up a shelf he will probably offer to help her (to get on her good side). He will emphasize the fact that he is considerate, reliable, and helpful.

His Friends Treat You Differently

When a man is interested in you chances are he is going to tell his crew. When you're all hanging out together his friends are going to treat you as if you're "his girl." They won't check you out like they do other women and they won't make perverted comments about you. They will try to get the scoop on how you feel about their boy and they will probably advertise him as Mr. Wonderful. They'll probably try to get you to kiss or they'll say how good you guys look together. They'll all have a sort of off-limits attitude toward you because as far as they are concerned, you are with their friend.


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