Oh the dreaded faked orgasm. It’s a fear in every man’s mind that he isn’t pleasing a woman enough, and it’s just as much of a fear for a woman that he knows she isn’t pleased. The result of all of this is a faked orgasm, a poor attempt at acting that countless women do to make the man in their lives feel proud of what he does. So how can you tell if you’ve been at the end of a faked orgasm? Let’s find out.
Watch her masturbate
Women orgasm the same no matter where they’re getting the sex from. If you really want to know what her orgasms are going to look like, watch her please herself and see how her body moves. Listen to the way she moans and study her body closely during the actual climax. See if she happens to be a squirter as that will give you a clear sign as to when she’s finished. A squirter is just a woman who shoots out a cum like substance during an orgasm. Most women don’t do this, but for those that do, faking it is dang near impossible.
Listen to her before the orgasm
Most of the time women will increase their breathing pattern in the heat of the moment. This means that your girl will either start moaning more or she will start breathing more. If she goes the same the whole way through and then randomly acts lie she’s orgasming, chances are it’s a fake. Listen specifically to what she does in an orgasm if she’s not normally a screamer because the random shouting of “Yes! Yes! Yes!” is a common faking technique
Feel her body when she orgasms
If your woman has reached her climaxed, her muscles are going to twitch and release themselves. This means that you should feel her tighten and get loose down there, similar to how your penis does when you cum. If she remains unmoved and just shouts a little bit, then she definitely didn’t have an orgasm.
What to do after the fake
If you discover that your girlfriend is indeed faking her orgasms, you have one of two choices. You can either deal with it and get off as you normally do or you can confront her about it. Talking is probably going to be your best option though as not being able to please your woman may eat you up inside after awhile. Tell her that you want to understand her body more and ask if she’ll be willing to show you how she can make herself orgasm. Then try to mimic what she does to a T until you get the hang of it. Try new things out until she doesn’t have to fake anything any longer.
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The female vagina is easy to diagnose. You should use oral sex or manual stimulation to get her vagina to open. Look at her vulva both the big lips and the little lips. Is her vagina open and ready? Has the clitoris protruded out of its hood and has become hard and sensitive. When you are inside of her, do you feel the point where the vagina contracts around your penis stimulating her to the point of orgasm? If her vagina is not open and excited and you are inside of her...she will more than likely be faking it...or telling you she came when you came. Be patient, explore her body, love every part of it and tease her with words and your tongue...make her desire want you and be ready to feel you. The key...look at her vagina....it will tell you when she is ready and you wont need to worry about her faking it anymore.
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