Have you gone on several dates with the same person and realized that the same body odor smell is lingering around? Many women simply do not know how to tell their dates that they smell badly in a pleasant manner without sounding rude. Well, here are some tips for dropping the information stink bomb on your date without being too blunt or offensive:
Figure out if he really does smell
Before giving advice make sure the smell is coming from your date. Do not make assumptions first. Do a quick walk by and sniff, or maybe lean in for a kiss to take a whiff. Better yet, try telling the person that he has something in his hair and then lean in to smell. If you notice the odor gets stronger, then it is definitely your date.
Suggest new products to help him smell good
When telling your date that he smells, you may try recommending certain body washes or deodorants. If you refer your date to any bathing products, try to change the subject. If not your date may become suddenly quiet or uncomfortable because of his personal hygiene. Keep in mind that many individuals may become offended when talking about their odor, which can ruin an otherwise pleasant evening.
Some things you might say
There are numerous ways to tell your date that he smells badly without insulting him or making him feel uncomfortable. Listed below are five examples that you may use when in this situation. “It was such a hot day wasn't it?”“It is so hot today I think I need another shower.”“Would you like to freshen up?”“Are you wearing an aftershave?”“What kind of cologne are you wearing?” You may find yourself wanting to ask your date these questions or maybe in different words but try not to be blunt or offend him in any way intentionally.
Try to make the smell funny
You may try to joke around or make this into a game. For example: Try to make your date smell himself without being too noticeable. You may try asking your date how you smell as well. If your date asks you why your are asking such questions you may respond with answers such as telling him that you are curious or simply asking without any specific reasons. If your date seems suddenly offended, you may try talking to your date about his hygiene. Remember not to bring up your dates hygiene first because he may become embarrassed causing him to show anger through his attitude.
Sometimes he may open the conversation for you
If your date asks about your hygiene first, you may make an attempt to talk about it with him. If you do not feel comfortable talking to your date about his hygiene, then you may offer to go shopping with him when he is available. Tell your date that you have to do some shopping as well.
Pick out stuff to make him smell good
You may purchase certain products of your own choice such as any cologne or aftershave for your date. You may also try giving these gifts to him on a special occasion such as Birthday or Christmas. Note: Suggestions. Keep in mind that you can give your date at anytime and that you do not need special occasions.
Let the date know the truth
If you and your date is open for discussion and can handle talking about his hygiene, try letting your date know that you are not being rude, let him know that you are being supportive and that you are not making fun of him because of his personal hygiene. Make your date feel as comfortable as possible when around you . Show support of your date by offering him to go out to public places with you. Continue dating without acting different around your date.
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