Strap on. Strap off. Karate kid anyone? Well, assuming you found that funny and are still reading this, you must want to know what a strap on is, how to use it, how to benefit from it, etc. Here we reveal some of the secrets and not-so-secrets about strap ons so you can see if they would help out your relationship.
What is a strap on?
A strap on is basically a penis for people who don’t have a penis. It’s a dildo that comes with a strap that can be worn around the waist. After someone has strapped it on, she can work her pelvis like normal in sex, but this time there will be a penis to mess around with. This creates a hands free action as the woman can hump like normal to get a job done.
Who uses a strap on?
Obviously women are usually the ones who wear strap ons because they are the ones lacking the penis. Most of the time, this happens for lesbian relationships so that the girls can get the sensation of having sex with a man without actually having to involve one in the matter. It may also be used in relationships where the men like to be dominated or like to have their prostate pleased. Some pornos contain strap ons in them as well because they can stay hard for an entire scene. As long as it’s covered, the strap on can appear to be a penis from afar.
What strap ons are out there?
Just like with dildos, there are a ton of different sizes, shapes and textures for strap ons out there. Most of them are shaped just like a penis, but some look like long tubes with bumps on them. The size of the strap shouldn’t matter because that is usually adjustable. There are different color and material options available as well, so its really just a matter of what is available at one particular location.
How to use a strap on
To make the strap on work for you, simply step into the strap area and pull the strap itself around your waist until it’s tight. Jump up and down a couple of times to make sure that it won’t start slipping in heavy action. Then you can insert and hump accordingly. There won’t be any cum to mess with or anything else. It’ll act just like a human penis, but it’s just a dildo in motion.
To be on the safe side, you’ll probably want to lube it up just a bit to make sure it slides in well. The main thing to remember is that using a strap on works just like masturbation. You just happen to be masturbating for someone else. The hands free action will allow you to play with other parts of your partner’s body too though, so you can have a full sexual experience all from one simple toy.
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Carter / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Hi,
I'm in a two year relationship with my girl friend, and, she's a virgin, I suggested last night if she'd like me to rake her virginity with a strap on, and she said yes.
Now, I'm looking on the internet for what some people think on it, do you think it'll ruin the relationship and also, do you think it's a good idea to take a girls virginity with one?
Thanks.
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