This may seem a bit unorthodox to you, but choking can be a totally new edge in your sex life. It’s a bit daring, mind you, but that’s what makes it fun. You can’t have a good sexual experience without a bit of danger involved, and as long as you use choking wisely, you should be able to get great pleasure from it. Here are some tips to help you along the way.
Make sure it’s okay with your partner
Obviously you don’t want tot look like a murderous lunatic, so you have to talk to your partner about the choking first. Bring it up as a way to spice up your sex life, and perhaps find some porn involving it. If you can show where you got the idea and how much pleasure can come from it, you might be able to convince your partner better. If your partner does not want to be choked, at least see if he or she would choke you. If one of you gets pleasure from it, everything will be well worth it.
Learn when to choke
Choking is best used right before an orgasm. You can’t do it for too long, but the sudden burst of air can really intensify the climax of a moment. It may take a few times to get things going at the right moments, but after some practice you should have it down. If you hear the classic “I’m going to cum any minute!”, that’s your cue. Otherwise, you’ll just have to get in tune with your partner’s body.
Learn how to choke
To properly do this, you’ll either need to place one hand flat on the person’s throat, or you’ll need to place two hands. It just depends on proportion. You don’t want to squeeze the neck as much as you’ll want to put pressure on it. If you put the right pressure in the right spots, you should get some good results. This works best if you are on top pressing down on your partner while he or she lies down. That way you have gravity working foe you as well.
Learn how long to choke
You can’t use choking for too long or you will injure your partner. Only go for about ten seconds and then let the person breath a bit. As long as the person still seems vital, you can repeat this throughout the sex. If the person starts looking light headed, just stop and hump away. This will hopefully maintain a euphoric feeling.
If the person passes out…
Go to the hospital. This is something that you cannot play around with. It may be fine if the person pops right back up, but being down for an extended period of time is never a good sign. If the person pops up, sit them up to breathe better and just let them come back slowly. You may want to be there in case your partner falls again. Don’t continue with the sex until your partner is completely back to normal.
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