A lot of men know how to talk to a woman but they just don't know how to wow her. Perhaps you have had a few bar conversations that turned stale, or a few girls that ditched you after date number one. If you want to find a woman and keep her around for a while then you must know how to wow her right from the start.
The Approach
If you see a girl that you want to talk to, approach her by yourself. Don't bring your wingman with you and definitely don't send a friend to say, "Hey, um.. My friend over there thinks you're really cute." Approach her with confidence, flash your pearly whites, tell her that you think she is very beautiful, introduce yourself, and ask if you can buy her a drink. If she accepts your drink offer then chances are she is single and possibly interested. If she declines your offer then just tell her that it was nice to meet her and go back to your friends.
Conversation
If she has agreed to let you buy her a drink then try to lure her into an area where the two of you can talk – but don't lead her somewhere too secluded because she might think you're a creep. Keep eye contact with her and make her think that you're genuinely interested in what she is saying. Don't act nervous but you will flatter her if you explain that you were nervous to approach such a beautiful girl. She will be impressed that you are comfortable enough with yourself to admit that you were intimidated. Be intelligent without sounding nerdy, and show her your sense of humor. If she seems interested in you then ask her for her number before you part ways.
Asking Her Out
Call her in the next day or two, don't wait three or four days just because one of your buddies told you that is the rule. If you call her the next day then she will see that you're a reliable person that isn't looking to play games. If you wait a few days she might still agree to go out with you but she won't be wowed by your tactics. Don't try to milk the phone conversation because that can get awkward and you both know that you just want to ask her out anyway. If she agrees to go out with you then find out what her interests are and ask her on a date based on what she likes.
The Little Things
When you first start to actually date the girl you want to show her what a stand-up guy you are. Take her on memorable dates (romantic strolls, home-cooked dinners, drive-in movies, etc.). Make her feel special with little gestures like bringing her coffee or surprising her with lunch during a long work day. Although it may sound stupid, you will impress her if you pay little attention to other girls. You can acknowledge other women but make it obvious that she is the one that you're looking at.
Remember What She Tells You
Men, this is key: try to remember little details that she tells you because she will be impressed if you remind her of those details later. For instance, if she tells you in passing about a candy that she used to love when she was a little girl and then you buy that candy for her a few weeks later, she is going to be extremely touched. Not only will she appreciate the sweet gesture but she will be impressed that you listened to her so carefully, and remembered something that seemed otherwise insignificant. If she told you what her favorite kind of juice or soda is then keep some of that drink in your house. This will once again show her that you paid attention to what she told you and it will make her feel like you're welcoming her into your space.
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