i told her and she said she wanted to marry me first but since i married her sister she can't feel the same to me. I feel she loves me too but since the situation is very sensitive she can't tell me she loves me. OOOOh my God, I love her so much and I want her, what can I do? please help me.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
You can dump your wife or dump the sister. Those are your only options. You can't have both, so you need to decide who you love more and get the pain over as quickly as possible.
Egycpl / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I'm very aware of the options, you brought nothing new. The question is how to bring this to my wife and what about my kids, where can we live ? it has to be very away from my wife ... things like that. Thanks
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
No offense, but your question was nothing new either. Elaborate as you did in your comment and I would have provided a more complete answer. As for how you tell your wife, you'll need to do it when you guys aren't in a fight. Everything should be calm so she doesn't blow up more than she already will.
She will likely get custody of the children, so you can move anywhere you want to really. You'll just need to work out visitations with her or in court. My parents got a divorce when I was 6 months old, and I just saw my dad every other weekend after that.
How do you tell the kids? Man, that's tough. You'll probably want to leave the sister out of that discussion for a bit and just explain that mommy and daddy are going to live in different places. In time, you'll just have to bring the sister up to them gently.
It's not going to be easy, which is why I say to do it as soon as you can. Hearts will break, but in time, you may be able to piece your family back together.
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