I Need Some 411

Me and my girlie were chillin at her place, all I did was go to the bathroom, next thing I know she is all up in my cellphone and found a number which I explained away as one of my boys' numbers but its really married neighbor ladie's number. Me and my married neighbor lady have an NSA relationship. I need advice I don't want to get her busted cause the sex is too good. What a MILF!! wink wink

Well, first let me point out that your girlfriend did break the trust barrier by looking through your cell phone. But, obviously, you've given her a reason to do so, which means 1) She already knows that something is up, but she doesn't know what it is unless she snoops or 2) She likes to snoop and catch her man in the act. Maybe she's had a past of heartbreaks or she fears betrayal so badly that she's willing to assume you guilty before innocent. In this case, unfortunately, her snooping is merited because you are lying to her. So, where do you go from here? Figure out what your intentions are for this girl. Is she a casual fling? Could there be something more? Once you figure that out, then make sure you're on the same page with her about this. It doesn't seem like you're ready to commit to just one woman yet; so if she's looking for a long term, monogamous relationship, then you need to be honest with her that you're not the type of man she's looking for. If you are looking for a serious relationship, then you need to re-evaluate the sex you're having with your neighbor. What makes it so hot? Is it her age? Is it because you feel naughty for doing it? Figure out what makes sex with the MILF so wonderful and see if you can incorporate those elements into the sex life you share with your girlfriend. If you do want something serious with your girlfriend, then you need to make the compromise and not hurt your chances at having what could become a wonderful relationship. But, don't kid yourself - if you want to keep seeing the next door neighbor, then you need to tell your girlfriend that you're not ready to commit only to her just yet. Save her the tears and save yourself the drama.

Answered by xtinacicchelli about 1 year ago.
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