If Your Partner Cheated On You, Would/Could You Forgive Them?

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AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Heaven Stubblefield voted for "Yes, absolutely. Everyone deserves a second chance!"

My husband would literally never do this, but if he did, he would deserve a second chance. I had a "web affair" I guess you could say early on in my marriage, and he forgave me for it. I would be a hypocrite not to

about 1 year ago · 1 Like
Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · Oooo ooo! Details, details! :-D Inquiring minds MUST know! ;-)

Maritza

Maritza · What exactly qualifies as a "web affair"?

AskMyGF

AskMyGF · I never had a physical encounter with the man. It was all through the web. There wasn't even anything sexual about it. I just developed an unhealthy relationship with him, and I hid our emails from my husband. I never sent him naked photos or anything...it was all heavy flirtation online. It still wasn't good though. He was also a great deal older than me, and I think -no, I know- I liked his attention more than anything.

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo) · Dangit! I was hoping for some hot-n-heavy webcam action! bah!

GG

GG · Older men are the best at making you feel special and interesting and wanted so i can sympathise with how you may have felt Heaven :-) LOVE older men! hehe ;-p

Maritza

Maritza · can I get your opinion? [link removed] No one is telling what I want to here :(

GG

GG · You can't post links unfortunately Maritza.

Maritza

Maritza · Argh! I think what this girl is doing is like the web affair the person on top is talking about. why doesnt anyone agree with me?

GG

GG · Well if it's only a web affair type of thing, the what do you have to worry about? Sure i would feel jealous, beyond belief but i have posted on the original question how i would personally deal with it. Sometimes we don't always hear what we want to hear sadly.

JustMe ( Ice Queen)
JustMe / 28 / Woman / Likes Bisexuals / Single

JustMe voted for "No way!! Once a cheater always a cheater. Hit the road Jack!"

Forgave one bf, and he keept on cheat. I'll never forgive cheating again.
No trust, no reason for relationship.

about 1 year ago · 1 Like
GG

GG · My thoughts exactly.

Adrian ( Resident A-hole)
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Adrian voted for "Other. (Please leave a comment)."

there are honestly too many variables to take into account. who, how many times, what exactly it entails...... it's all a case by case siituation.

about 1 year ago
GG

GG · I see what you're saying.

Adrian ( Resident A-hole)

Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i cheated emotionally once (went on a date, kissed on that date but didn't have sex) and won't ever cheat again. it's WAY too much effort for me. i'd rather just invest that time and effort in my girlfriend.

Maritza
Maritza / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Maritza voted for "Yes, absolutely. Everyone deserves a second chance!"

about 1 year ago
Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

Andy voted for "Other. (Please leave a comment)."

I genuinely don't know.

about 1 year ago
Kevin
Kevin / 20 / Man / Likes Women / Single

Jhgf voted for "No way!! Once a cheater always a cheater. Hit the road Jack!"

about 1 year ago
GG
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married

Gudgurl voted for "No way!! Once a cheater always a cheater. Hit the road Jack!"

The trust would be gone instantly. I'm a true Scorpio unfortunately :-)

about 1 year ago
GG

by GG

32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married

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