Is it bad to look at porn if you have a girlfriend?

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Before I had a girlfriend I had a pretty decent sized folder of porn from various sites with various girls. But now I have a girlfriend an I feel really guilty that I still look at it. It was an addiction I had for a little while and now even though I have a girlfriend I still haven't stopped. I mean, my girlfriend wants to have sex but what about the down time in between?

The thing is, we haven't had sex yet. I haven't done anything really sexual with her for a little too.

Is it wrong to continue to watch porn even if I have a girlfriend?

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Dan
Dan / Woman / Likes Men / Single

No, it's not wrong. I have friends that watch tons of porn and they have very stable relationships. Some people are simply more sexual than others. You shouldn't feel guilty, but at the same time you probably shouldn't let her know about how extensive your collection is. It's fine if she knows you like porno, but don't let her think you're a fiend.

It's also not wrong to watch porn with your girlfriend...you should look into that.

almost 5 years ago
Oneman123
Oneman123 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

No,its not wrong to look at porn even though you have a girlfriend. I mean I have a girlfriend and she knows I look at porn even though we havent had sex but I watch it every now and then. See what you have to do is think about her and how she is the love of your life and think of anything that would get you distracted from watchin porn. But in your down time then I would watch it but watch in moderation and after that just lift weights or do some activities that would help your addiction

over 4 years ago
Christopher6
Christopher6 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

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almost 4 years ago
Manilla666
Manilla666 / 19 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

I dont think its wrong, ill watch porn with my boyfriend. Haha.

over 2 years ago
Ikeknight
Ikeknight / 33 / Man / Likes Women / Married

I think it depends on the girl you're with. Some girls are fine with it, some what join in with you and others don't like it at all. My wife detests porn. It's not that she is a prude. She's an animal in bed and very open minded when it comes to sex. She just finds porn to be demeaning to women.

almost 2 years ago
Nicholasy

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