Hi there! Well I have a pretty simple question, but I keep getting very complex answers about the consequences ect, ect, ect. The simple question is: Is wanting to have sex while you're 15-16 wrong? I'm unsure what to think because of the constant putting down of the question! Sex is a normal part of life isn't it? Is wanting to be sexually active at that/those age(s) wrong?
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Lady / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It is completely normal at this age, as long as you use protection!
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It's normal, so no it isn't "wrong". You might be under tat impression because of the amount of people telling you to wait. Sex is all around you. Wanting it is a natural part of life. With that in mind, a lot of teens only have sex because they think they're supposed to, or they get a false idea of what it is. Initially, sex is NOT all it is cracked up to be. It's awkward. It hurts. It's confusing. It's emotional. Most of the time this mixed with teen hormones makes for a not so pleasant experience. If you do have sex, do some research, ask questions, use protection, and go about things the smart way. You'll enjoy things a whole lot more that way.
Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
OK, simple answer: Wanting, no. Having, yes.
If you are asking for permission, you are too young for the responsibility of having sex. I don't just mean consequences like babies that you are not ready to handle yet, but the other consequences too. One example, the emotional fallout.
Also, Nowadays, having sex with a 15 year old can be a crime. Even with another 15 year old. If you take a naked photo of yourself, you are a criminal too. Try to figure that out. See, some of us adults still aren't emotionally mature enough to handle sex. Try not to rush it.
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