Is losing your erection during your first blow job/ intercourse normal?

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AskMyGF
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single

Yep, especially if she is inexperienced. Many men do not cum at all or go soft several times in the process. I don't know what happened during my husband's first blow job (unless that was the one with me), but our first one together took a long time and he went soft a few times through it. Not for sex, but for the BJ he did.

about 1 year ago
ILoveCottonCandy
ILoveCottonCandy / 19 / Woman / Likes Men / In a relationship

Sorry, I guess I'm more still new to all of this. But, what does erection mean again? And what does it mean when men go soft? I guess I'm use to the basics and the basic words.

about 1 year ago
AskMyGF

AskMyGF · No need to apologize. An erection is a man's hard dick. Going soft just means that he loses the hardness, like before or after sex

ILoveCottonCandy

ILoveCottonCandy · Oh, you mean losing the hardness right before of after he cums? Or? Wait, no my boyfriend is still hard after I make him cum. So, that's not it. Hahahaha. Oh, goodness. (Shakes head)

AskMyGF

AskMyGF · Like when he's walking around with it, no sex involved. It's soft

Andy ( Giggity Giggity Goo)
Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking

Soft means when his penis isn't as full of blood and so its spongy and rubbery. When he's hard his penis is full of blood and is thus hard, like a VARY full water baloon. Errection comes from the latin errectus, which means to set upright, vertical. So when he's hard his penis goes vertical, thus errect; an errection.

about 1 year ago

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