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posted over 1 year ago
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How should i look at this. I have felt bummed since i realized this. I have had chances in the past but it hasn't felt right. i think my largest concern is inexperience as well as the fact that the girls in my class feel sorry for me in knowing this
Hmmm, I highly HIGHLY doubt you are the ONLY virgin in your senior class...unless you live in a really small town of course. For one, men lie all the time about losing their virginity just to feel like they belong. My husband was a virgin when we got together, and guess what...I actually LIKED that part of him (damn I'm using a lot of caps locks...haha). Seriously, it made me feel secure knowing that he hadn't been whoring around. You may think women are feeling sorry for you, but a lot of them probably find it incredibly sexy that you're holding back. The one you get to be with is special.
As for inexperience, it happens to everyone. You'll learn as you go, but no woman is going to laugh at you or something stupid like that when you finally take the plunge. You'll figure things out in the moment. It just starts to flow.
Stop worrying and save yourself for that special someone. The last thing we need is another teenage guy getting his dick wet for no reason beyond peer pressure.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Hmmm, I highly HIGHLY doubt you are the ONLY virgin in your senior class...unless you live in a really small town of course. For one, men lie all the time about losing their virginity just to feel like they belong. My husband was a virgin when we got together, and guess what...I actually LIKED that part of him (damn I'm using a lot of caps locks...haha). Seriously, it made me feel secure knowing that he hadn't been whoring around. You may think women are feeling sorry for you, but a lot of them probably find it incredibly sexy that you're holding back. The one you get to be with is special.
As for inexperience, it happens to everyone. You'll learn as you go, but no woman is going to laugh at you or something stupid like that when you finally take the plunge. You'll figure things out in the moment. It just starts to flow.
Stop worrying and save yourself for that special someone. The last thing we need is another teenage guy getting his dick wet for no reason beyond peer pressure.
Good luck!
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