Men and women seem to be very different in many aspect of their lives. How each wishes to be pleasured is no different. While men tend to be more finish line oriented, women want the overall package. However, they both seem to agree on one thing. The big “O” is sometimes best achieved alone. So, here are a few tips that may enhance your solo performances.
Lubes and oils
Since the introduction of “warming” oils and lubes to the public, both men and women alike have an added intensity to their “private” time. There are several warming lubricants on the market that are also edible, including Wet, Motion Potion and Foreplay. There are also some things you should watch out for in oils and lubes though. If you plan on using a silicone based toy during your session, you will need to avoid silicone based lubricants, as the lubricant will disintegrate your toy over time. Also, if your toy is latex based, you will need to avoid oil-based lubricants. So, be sure to check on that prior to purchasing your lube. Also, there are some lubricants on the market that contain glycerin. Ladies, it is important that your lube does not contain glycerin or parabens as it may cause yeast infections or other allergic reactions.
Vibrators
For both men and women, a vibrator can be a perk to be added to any pleasure session. Gentlemen, vibrators can actually intensify your orgasm if used properly. Also, for the more open minded man is the vibrating anal tickler. This can be particularly enhancing to any solo performance (and no one has to know). For those of you who has never purchased a vibrator or even considered using one, silicone are the most common. They are usually waterproof, which means they can be easily clean. They should be cleaned after every use. Also, you may want to consider storing your vibrator and batteries separately as batteries occasionally leak. This means no more vibrator.
Natural masturbation - no tools or toys
Finally, for those of you who prefer to go it the natural way, you should make sure of a couple of things.Ladies, trim those nails. Nothing can be more painful than an accidental knick. Also, keep in mind that women are blessed with approximately ten erogenous zones (areas that turn us on). Use them to the fullest. Make a point to remember which areas give you the most pleasure.Guys, keep it soft. Although you can use your hand lotion as lubricant, you can and should use it on your hands. By now you have probably already experienced the terrible sensation of being rubbed raw. The skin on your penis is not intended for heavy use, like your hands. So, moisturize often and well. Also, generally most men are so goal oriented that they find one way to achieve their orgasm and do that over and over again. Change it up. This is your time. Also, remember that there are no rules against exploring your body for new heights of pleasure.
