Question
posted 10 months ago
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If i am a slim fit guy no gut or pooch or fat on me semi muscluar,, what do you think of men in thongs? Thongs are just comfy! i like wearing them to bed. But am nervous to wear them in front of a girl
If you have a particular girl in mind then don't tell her or show her your interest in wearing thongs until you know her well enough that you can trust her with stuff she may or may not aprove of. If she really likes you she'll overlook anything like this, but if you can't COMPLETELY and IMPLICITLY trust her then I'd hold off on it for a wile.
ahm, unsure, there are also thongs for men. Which look stupid, no matter what your body type.
I am bi, have seen enough pics of men in thongs to tell you that they look ridiculous! Unless it is a fetish of yours or you really really like wearing them, I would advice against it!!!
It seems to me that a lot of people, straight, gay, and bi alike, tend to presume that thongs on guys in public mean they're gay... I know that's not the case, but, that's how it ends up perceived.
That could work for you, as a lot of women tend to look at gays as cuter (helps, though, that so many are) than they would if they were straight. Then, to find out that part of the earlier impression was wrong, the "cuter" part might remain. Might not, though, everyone reacts differently to things & thongs...
Best bet is probably Andy's advice, get to know the particular girl and gauge her interest before surprising her with the banana hammock... Then, you'll know if to keep it in private settings or not, as well.
In short, i do not find it all a turn on or attractive regardless of physical features. However if you like them then who cares what anyone else thinks? They can be removed, cant they? ;-p
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Andy / 27 / Man / Likes Women / Just looking
If you have a particular girl in mind then don't tell her or show her your interest in wearing thongs until you know her well enough that you can trust her with stuff she may or may not aprove of. If she really likes you she'll overlook anything like this, but if you can't COMPLETELY and IMPLICITLY trust her then I'd hold off on it for a wile.
Rob / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
ahm, unsure, there are also thongs for men. Which look stupid, no matter what your body type.
I am bi, have seen enough pics of men in thongs to tell you that they look ridiculous! Unless it is a fetish of yours or you really really like wearing them, I would advice against it!!!
Jatropheus / 40 / Man / Likes Men / Single
It seems to me that a lot of people, straight, gay, and bi alike, tend to presume that thongs on guys in public mean they're gay... I know that's not the case, but, that's how it ends up perceived.
That could work for you, as a lot of women tend to look at gays as cuter (helps, though, that so many are) than they would if they were straight. Then, to find out that part of the earlier impression was wrong, the "cuter" part might remain. Might not, though, everyone reacts differently to things & thongs...
Best bet is probably Andy's advice, get to know the particular girl and gauge her interest before surprising her with the banana hammock... Then, you'll know if to keep it in private settings or not, as well.
Best of luck!
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
In short, i do not find it all a turn on or attractive regardless of physical features. However if you like them then who cares what anyone else thinks? They can be removed, cant they? ;-p
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