You’re in bed with your lover and the night is deep, dark, and mystical. You’ve dreamed of this moment and wanted this to happen since weeks! You spent an hour of foreplay giving it all you’ve got and applying all those techniques of seduction you’ve learnt through the years of experience. You don’t want to ruin anything.‘How about a quickie?’ says your guy. At this moment you could either shoot yourself or shoot him! These little phrases that might seem harmless to some do more damage than a breakup would! Couples don’t understand that sex is nearly sacred to their relationship, if they want to have it long term without any fights, sex is that one short timed ‘religious’ tradition that requires maturity, sensibility, and importance. If you do it right, glory will follow. Otherwise you’ll end up either feeling ridiculous or making your partner feel so.There are a couple of common things men and women do and say that completely ruin the mood of sex. If you want to be good in bed, and in you relationship, you must avoid them at ALL costs.
Women: Don’t make a joke about your man’s penis
For girls, the most lethal thing you would want to do to really turn your guy off, is to make a funny comment on his dick. Really, where in the world did that come from? Do girls really think that’s funny? The dick is like the center of the man’s world, and trust me he’s sensitive about it. So if during sex or right before it, you pass a wise-ass funny comment like ‘hey look, little betty misses me’ or ‘here kitty kitty kitty!’ NOT COOL! You might be trying to sound funny and have a little humor while you’re at the job of having intercourse but really, this is the worst thing you could do to turn him off.
Guys: Don’t orgasm until she does
For boys, the worst common thing you could do to really spoil the mood and piss the girl off is to ejaculate prematurely. Imagine the girl’s heart beat rising, her mind drifting off to ‘La-La Land’ thinking planning about how spicy the night is going to be, fantasizing about all the great positions she’s going to try out today that she just read in the morning magazine, when suddenly she looks at you, and you’re lying there with that pathetic expression of premature orgasm on your face. She would flare up with rage but not be able to say anything!
Don’t smell bad
The regular all-rounder mess ups couples make during sex include stinking. Don’t stink. I repeat. DO NOT smell bad. You’re supposed to smell of angels and arouse your partner’s senses, not repel them. Bad odor is like a weapon.
Don’t get kinky without talking about it
Un-waxed privates can also be a turn off for couples if we don take into account some strange-kinky fantasies, which leads to the kinky stuff. Spanking and saying dirty porno stuff may be a turn on for some, and a turn off for many. It depends on your partner; I suggest you don’t try such stunts in your first sex mission with anyone. Get to know what your lover likes before you move on to that. Besides what’s already discussed, just use your common sense to tell what could ruin sex, for example, farting couldn’t possibly do any good, right?
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