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posted 4 months ago
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my sex friend and i had sex again but he always manage to cum first....great turn off to me but i really like for him to last longer...how can i do that? answer ASAP for me ok?
...how long does he last now? 5 seconds or 5 hours? i've never understood how some guys cum and it's like a light switch, sex is over......it don't matter if i cum in 5 min or an hour, i go til SHE'S done!
Vicki Nguyen ·
he cam in like an hour...i wasnt even done yet but he said he'll try harder next time not to cum first....so i dont pleasure him????
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
an hour?........ ok, in my experience, anything longer than an hour usually ends up with soreness, but no, do not lick, suck, or rub him before you actually have sex, but have him lick, suck, and rub u. also, have him rub one out a few hours before. it'll desensitize him a little.
Hey there Vicki. If you want, you can read my post on surpressing your partners orgasm. It should be on the main page, or you can go to " sex tips " in " orgasms. " Hope that may help you.
4 months ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
dude...... that post was LONG and BORING. no offense meant, but if you don't grab the reader in within the first couple of lines, you've lost the majority of people.....
cleverKAL ·
No worries man, I get it, patience is hard to control and like you said you gotta grab the reader. I'm way better with my poetry. But hey if they don't wanna learn, thats cool. I just don't see how rushing through the explanation, is going to help anyone. I do agree with you though, the majority will pass it up, but hey it is what it is man.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
i never said you had to give it all away at the beginning! but when you spend the first page full of disclaimers, ur gonna lose quite a few readers. summarize the important stuff into a couple sentences, THEN start ur disclaimers. then after THOSE you go into detail about ur method. more readers will stick around....
Just so we're clear, have you ever had an orgasm from intercourse? Do you orgasm more easily from manual stimulation? Forget about him for a minute: what's YOUR orgasm history?
Considering some of your other posts, it seems you're new to sex in general. A fairly sizable percentage of women simply don't orgasm from penetration despite that it still feels very good to them. Yes, some of them can "learn" how with practice, but some of them can't. This might be the case with you.....
I'm sorry to say this, but your guy being able to hold back for an hour is quite respectable in reality....
4 months ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
ahhh!!!! i forgot for a minute that some women can't cum from penetration, which is terrible for me to realize because i used to have such a great memory, and my ex-wife never could orgasm from penetration!
Noname1970 ·
I'm not sure of the numbers, but from what I remember it's actually a minority of women who do orgasm SOLELY from penetration, albeit a large one (20-30%?) whereas more often it's actually the clitoral stimulation that, anatomy allowing, occurs during intercourse that does the job...... Ladies? I think your opinions would be very valued here....
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Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
...how long does he last now? 5 seconds or 5 hours? i've never understood how some guys cum and it's like a light switch, sex is over......it don't matter if i cum in 5 min or an hour, i go til SHE'S done!
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · have him pleasure you and only you BEFORE having sex!
Vicki Nguyen · he cam in like an hour...i wasnt even done yet but he said he'll try harder next time not to cum first....so i dont pleasure him????
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · an hour?........ ok, in my experience, anything longer than an hour usually ends up with soreness, but no, do not lick, suck, or rub him before you actually have sex, but have him lick, suck, and rub u. also, have him rub one out a few hours before. it'll desensitize him a little.
cleverKAL / 20 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Hey there Vicki. If you want, you can read my post on surpressing your partners orgasm. It should be on the main page, or you can go to " sex tips " in " orgasms. " Hope that may help you.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · dude...... that post was LONG and BORING. no offense meant, but if you don't grab the reader in within the first couple of lines, you've lost the majority of people.....
cleverKAL · No worries man, I get it, patience is hard to control and like you said you gotta grab the reader. I'm way better with my poetry. But hey if they don't wanna learn, thats cool. I just don't see how rushing through the explanation, is going to help anyone. I do agree with you though, the majority will pass it up, but hey it is what it is man.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · i never said you had to give it all away at the beginning! but when you spend the first page full of disclaimers, ur gonna lose quite a few readers. summarize the important stuff into a couple sentences, THEN start ur disclaimers. then after THOSE you go into detail about ur method. more readers will stick around....
GG / 32 / Woman / Likes Women / Married
Get him to masturbate a few hours before you have sex, that way he won't have such an urgent feeling.
Noname1970 / 42 / Man / Likes Women / Single
Just so we're clear, have you ever had an orgasm from intercourse? Do you orgasm more easily from manual stimulation? Forget about him for a minute: what's YOUR orgasm history?
Considering some of your other posts, it seems you're new to sex in general. A fairly sizable percentage of women simply don't orgasm from penetration despite that it still feels very good to them. Yes, some of them can "learn" how with practice, but some of them can't. This might be the case with you.....
I'm sorry to say this, but your guy being able to hold back for an hour is quite respectable in reality....
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · ahhh!!!! i forgot for a minute that some women can't cum from penetration, which is terrible for me to realize because i used to have such a great memory, and my ex-wife never could orgasm from penetration!
Noname1970 · I'm not sure of the numbers, but from what I remember it's actually a minority of women who do orgasm SOLELY from penetration, albeit a large one (20-30%?) whereas more often it's actually the clitoral stimulation that, anatomy allowing, occurs during intercourse that does the job...... Ladies? I think your opinions would be very valued here....
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