I am a 24 year old guy. I have been seeing my fiance for a little under 2 years now. We have a pretty good relationship, sexually and every other way. We are in the process of saving to buy a home together, which leaves us living in each of our parents homes until we buy and move. This gives us no where, except no-tell Motels and our "rooms" to sneak a quickie in. Last week my mom walked right in on us with my fiance butt ass naked riding me cowgirl style. My mom is all weirded out now, and my fiance is mortified and refuses to come over anymore. I can't pretend this never happened, but what should I do?
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Jersey1 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Just be straight up with your mom about your privacy needs especially when your girlfriend is around. Explain that your intentions are not at all to disrespect her home, but to please knock or give fair warning when entering your room, at least. It's just common courtesy and might lessen the embarrassment next time, so your girlfriend at least has time to put some clothes on! As for your fiance, she'll have to get over it, hopefully sooner than later. She's marrying you anyway, she has to face your mom eventually, better to get it over with before the wedding.
Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If she is your fiancé, that means you are getting married—which means, your girl and your mom will probably cross paths sometime again. I can understand your girl might need a little space from Mom, but they eventually need to get together and get through the weirdness. Give it a few more weeks, and then arrange to take your girl to see your mom—maybe it will be only for a cup of coffee, or for your fiancé to come pick you up at your house, but then need to go ahead and get over this awkwardness. I don’t think that you need to have a talk with your mom; she knows what she saw, and she is probably just as embarrassed. In the meantime, ask your mom to knock.
Chris / Woman / Likes Men / Single
My only question is what age are you & your girlfriend. If you are 30 then she should know you are having sex & can be a little more accepting. If you 18 then she would have perferred you waited (all parents do).
Yes it would have been nice if she knocked, but also from her view it is her house & she can open any door she wants whenever she wants, well the bathroom door maybe not because well we know why.
To get them talking again you could play a trick on them & tell each one you want to eat dinner with just the one & actually set it up that all 3 are there. Then in public you donlt have to talk about the sex but get the grounds for communitation down again.
Toxic / 31 / Man / Likes Women / Single
A simple dinner out will resolve it.
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