I have some rape fantacies which i go with while masturbating.
I have herd that most of the women also have these rape fantacies, is it true?
It is also said that most (not all) women who are raped actually like it when they are being raped (i.e. they actually can even orgasm) but later they repent and feel depressed for undergoing that,
What is true and what is myth?
If not getting too personal, do you have rape fantacies?
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
NO. NO I DON'T. I almost deleted this post the moment I saw it up, but I'm keeping it here to address the issue. Just read...
Women who are raped do NOT like it in any way shape or form. NONE of them. EVER. How would you fucking like it if you were helplessly being plowed into to fulfill some man's sick and twisted pleasure? Huh? Most of the women who get raped are small girls like me who have no fucking way of defending themselves and then end up basically as sex toys for men who couldn't get sex from any willing partners. In the end, these women feel used, worthless, useless, and alone. the situation is as far away from pleasurable as possible.
If you can't tell, rape is not something that I take lightly. I'm usually highly supportive of any fetishes a person may have, but not rape. That pushes it too far for me. When you start fantasizing about removing someone of their innocence and power all in one mean and selfish attempt to get yourself off, you've broken my acceptance barrier.
I can't stop you from having any fantasies you want, but I in no way condone behavior associated with rape. Women don't have rape fantasies. Some women might like to be dominated, but that's a different story. They are willing victims then, and they enjoy the sex in the end as well. Women don't think about being raped though, especially those that actually have some experience in that department.
Everything you asked about is more than a "myth". It's all lies that rapists probably came up with to somehow legitimize their actions and not feel bad about what they've done. They could act as if they were doing a girl a favor then by raping them, but it's not a fucking favor at all.
Sorry if I got a little heated about this, but it's a touchy subject for me. Please, don't EVER post something about this on the site again. Period. I'll delete every last one I see.
Shred / Woman / Likes Men / Single
And I would add that an involuntary orgasm does not mean that she is enjoying it.
James / 24 / Man / Likes Women / Single
AskMyGF, your response was incredibly ignorant.
Many women fantasize about rape, including my girlfriend, who enjoys rape-roleplays very much, and some women do orgasm during rape. This in no way means that she was enjoying it, or that she wanted it, or that it isn't rape.
What is the point of an advice website if a Google search provides better advice?
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James / 24 / Man / Likes Women / Single
AskMyGF, your response was incredibly ignorant.
Many women fantasize about rape, including my girlfriend, who enjoys rape-roleplays very much, and some women do orgasm during rape. This in no way means that she was enjoying it, or that she wanted it, or that it isn't rape.
What is the point of an advice website if a Google search provides better advice?
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James / 24 / Man / Likes Women / Single
AskMyGF, your response was incredibly ignorant.
Many women fantasize about rape, including my girlfriend, who enjoys rape-roleplays very much, and some women do orgasm during rape. This in no way means that she was enjoying it, or that she wanted it, or that it isn't rape.
What is the point of an advice website if a Google search provides better advice?
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ouradopt .com/adoption-blog/nov-2008/faitha/trauma-tuesday-orgasms-during-rape-and-sexual-abuse
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