Every month, couples are hit with those few days where all sexual fun seems to come to a halt. But, does everything really have to end due to a small inconvenience? I think not, and if you use some creativity and alter your usual activities (and maybe add a towel or shower into the mix), you’ll find that you and your girlfriend can have just as much fun now as you would during those non-period days. However, before you being, the most important thing to remember is to keep an open mind. This may seem silly, but it’s true. Some girls may feel self conscious during any sexual activity while on their period, so if you want things to go smoothly, try to refrain from commenting on things such as how gross the blood is and how things might resemble a murder scene after its all over (…possible exaggeration).
Just have sex
This may seem like an obvious suggestion, but there are many couples that actually don’t even consider the activity during this time of the month. But when it really comes down to it, period sex is no different than regular sex aside from the extra lubrication and the need for a dark towel underneath it all. However, this time is not the bet for crazy positioning – the safest bets here are missionary and doggy style. Also remember that while your chances of getting pregnant are lowered during your period, it is still possible, so always remember to wear a condom.
Try anal sex
If the thought of vaginal intercourse during this time of the month makes either of you a bit squeamish, it’s completely understandable. So, a good alternative for this, that still involves some form of intercourse, is to take the plunge into anal. If you and your partner have done this act before, things shouldn’t be much different than usual. If you haven’t, though, make sure to go about things very slowly, as to not cause any extra discomfort in addition to those from her period, and don’t forget the lube.
Bring out the toys
Many women see an increase in their sex drives during menstruation, so using sex toys is a great alternative to intercourse. You should know that using sex toys, such as vibrators, dildos, or anal stimulators is no different during her period than when it is when she’s not on her period, except for the little extra mess. So, go ahead and have fun, just clean up with an alcohol-based soap afterwards to ensure no future problems will pop up.
Final thoughts on having sex while on the rag
I hope these activities have helped you keep your sexual relationship active during this unfortunate inconvenience every month. Just remember that as long as you and your partner stay comfortable with each other and have open minds, the possibilities for fun are endless!
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