I am currently in a long term relationship with an extremely attractive girl. I believe i am deeply in love with her and i think we are very happy together. However, i am friends with another girl. just friends. this other girl is alos very attractive, maybe even more so. she is much more confident and we also have a lot more in common. sometimes when i am masturbating, my mind slips to thinking of this other girl. how the hell do i stop myself from being unfaithful!?
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Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
While it's perfectly normal to fantasize about other people, even ones we know personally while in a relationship, I do not think it's healthy when it's someone whom you consider more attractive physically & personality-wise than your own partner. The fact that you consider yourself to be unfaithful for having these thoughts also conveys your guilt. You need to rethink your relationship & who your loyalty is to. It's one thing to have naughty thoughts about another person but it's another thing to do develop feelings for them. Consider these feelings, both sexually & emotionally before you lead both women on as it is not fair to either one of them. You may need to re-evaluate both relationships with each woman & decide which is best for you in the long run. You're the one in control of either resisting the temptation or giving in, so consider the pros & cons of both situations & then you should know what to do! Best wishes :-)
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