Do you want to make sure you keep your man…Or, do you want to turn him off? Either way, find out how to keep him by redeeming yourself, or to get rid of him - do what not to do.
Turnoff #10: You try to control the sex
Do not over direct him while having sex. Women who feel they need to direct every movement their man does to them - will turn him off. It’s good to tell him a fantasy of yours – he will love it, but stay away from directing his every move. Give him plenty freedom to rein and allow him to interpret your fantasy into something racier than you could have ever imagined.
Turnoff #9: You are stiff in bed
Don’t be a corpse in bed. No man wants to make wild passionate love to a cold corpse. Make sure you participate and turn up the heat for both of you. Throw all your inhibitions out the window and tune into having the most fun you can have with your partner – who mind you is ready and able to give you what you want.
Turnoff #8: You put no effort in how you look
Do not look worn down, smell bad, or look like you do not care. A surefire way to turn off a man is not taking care of you. Bad hygiene and poor grooming will be a big deterrent. Get a manicure and a pedicure, take a steamy shower, primp, and wear clean clothes – you will feel better and will project confidence that he will love.
Turnoff #7: You’re full of drama
Do not be a drama queen. If you want to turn him off, put yourself down constantly. Too much drama and playing the “woe is me” act will not get you to any base with a man. These verbal cues will instantly make him turn a “180” and he will not likely turn back around. Try to say mantra to yourself that make you feel good about being YOU. Keep these little bits of positive advice in your pocket or purse so, you can look at them as much as possible, if needed. When you believe in you, he will to.
Turnoff #6: All you want is money
Do not sleep with a man just for his money. This is a big turn off. Stay away from his checkbook and stop harping on him about how much money he makes. Be confident with yourself and your financial present and future.
Turnoff #5: You whine about your ex
Do not dish about your ex with your current man. If you were in his shoes, you would not want to hear about his former lovers – good or bad. Start fresh…after all, he is your present man. Talk about the two of you and keep things up beat.
Turnoff #4: You wear granny panties
Do not wear any underwear that could resemble your grandmother. Of course, no two men are alike and their tastes will be different, but ugly or granny underwear is not appetizing. Talk with your man and find out what he would like to see you wear. Take him lingerie shopping with you – pull him into the dressing room and let the fire begin.
Turnoff #3: You talk too much
Do not be a chatterbox in bed. Men look at this one as a major turn off. Endless chatter that has nothing to do with sex or passion – leave it at the door. Yourself: Remember you are having sex. Talk dirty to your man, share a fantasy and ENJOY him.
Turnoff #2: You fake excitement in bed
Do not fake it ‘til you make it. Even if you have been guilty of this a time or two, but no need to fake it when it does not serve you or him well when you do. If you are having trouble getting in the mood, talk to your man. Good communication with him can help you relax and get into the mood.
Turnoff #1: You wait for him to start sex
Do not wait for him to initiate sex all the time. It is the 21 century and you will need to initiate sex, sometimes to keep your relationship fresh. Get with the program and give your man that special night where you start and give him mind-blowing pleasure.
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Kego / Woman / Likes Men / Single
wow this is wonderfull thanks for giving me a tip off.I am a chat box then i would try to keep quite now!!!!!!!!!!!!
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