For most parents the task of talking to your children about sex can be a daunting one and there are most definitely topics that you just can’t discuss. Well, here are nine things that your parents never taught you about sex that you may need to know.
The Value of Foreplay
This is actually one of the most valuable sexual skills you can have. With a sexual partner that is great at foreplay, you can have incredible sexual experiences that will go beyond your wildest imaginations.
Size Does Matter
This is a topic that probably didn’t come up with your parents. However, you should definitely keep in mind that too big can be equally as bad as too small. Often times, men who are overly well-endowed can have many more problems with sexual partners than those with a small or average-sized penis.
Safety is fun
Although your parents most likely had the conversation about safe sex, they probably didn’t tell you how much fun safe sex can be. Sometimes simply adding ribs can triple your pleasure. However, if that isn’t enough, there are also flavored condoms as well as oils are lubes.
Always Clean Up Your Mess
Now, your parents may have taught you this as a child. However, when discussing sex, they probably didn’t teach you this little fact. Sex is messy, especially when done properly. There will be fluids and things that will quite simply require you to clean up after you have finished.
Sex, Lies and Videotapes
All three of these can get you into serious trouble. However, two of them can be fun at the same time, especially when combined. Just make sure any tapes that are made don’t get into the wrong hands.
Love The One You’re With
Although sex should be shared with someone you love and care about, sometimes you just need your “itch” scratch. In this case, love the one your with. This means treating him/her with respect, honesty and passion.
Do What You Know
Even though experimenting can be fun, you should try to keep in mind that sticking to what you know you are good at is sometimes the best way to ensure your experience will be exactly what you expect it to be.
Talk Dirty to Me
Learning the fine art of talking dirty is a trick. However, once mastered this can be an extremely effective tool to flip not only your switch but your partner’s as well. However, since talking dirty is all about fantasies, you will need to know your partner’s fantasies.
Pick up all your toys
Again, your parents definitely tried to instill this quality into you from a young age, I’m sure. However, not quite with this spin. Everybody likes a decent toy. You know your favorite. The one with the vibrating nodules and spinning thingy. You should however, make sure that all your toys get cleaned and put away after use. This will not only make them ready for your next romp, but also avoid any unnecessary embarrassment.Overall, you should remember that parents usually cover the basics and it is up to you to discover the rest on your own. Friends and partners can be a huge help in learning and discussing these matters.
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