Ok, so this isn't so much about sex in the specific sense (but definitely in the general sense). I can't get to square fucking one with women.
I'm 31, 300 lbs, 6ft 1. I've only had one GF ever and that lasted like a month. I've tried everything. And I do mean everything. Being myself. Being natural. Forcing it. Begging. Being attentive and listening. Being an asshole and a jerk. I've been patient, nurturing, humorous, thoughtful, rude and downright indignant. If the goal was to be labeled a creeper, I've got that down pat. I've approched Chinese women, white, black, skinny, fat, tall, short, disabled. I've tried online dating. I've practiced my game, rewound and played it back in my head, and analyzed it like game footage to improve.
I can never, EVER get a girl to like me.
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Stalefish / 19 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
disabled? .....o.o damn. I think everyone is able to get someone to like them. I personally think that the best "GF" comes from a social place. Or a friend of a friends. This way you get to talk without actually proposing anything serious. This will allow you to know what kinda person she is and what shes into. Just keep your head up man.
Duhwinning / Man / Likes Men / Single
Tried it. Ended up making the situation with the original friend awkward. I've held out on even suggesting it in once case, just hinting around about it when hanging out, but she wasn't interested.
Stalefish / 19 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
honestly, if you really DID try "everything" theres basically nothing anyone on this website could say to help you besides telling you to be yourself, and she will eventually present herself. I basically say just ride it out. Dont stress. Just live life to the fullest.
Duhwinning / Man / Likes Men / Single
i'm sure i haven't tried everything and it's not my intent to try and one-up whoever is trying to help. i'm just letting you know what i've done. and yeah i see what you're saying, but not getting laid sux and being alone sux more, ya know? i guess being cool about stuff is something else i can't do.
Stalefish / 19 / Man / Likes Women / In a relationship
Yeah i get what you mean. Im one of those people that doesnt like being single for long. But If you cant learn to just not be your number one priority then your going to stress yourself out thinking about why you cant get a girlfriend. Like i said before...Just chill man.
AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Well it's not your size. My husband is of a similar build and I adore him. Chances are you just haven't found the right person. Everyone goes through that. The second you forget about it, someone will likely come along. Stop trying...seriously. Just let things happen.
Adrian / 29 / Man / Likes Women / Single
ok, in this case i might have some advice. about 6 months ago i met my girlfriend. me= 5'9", 190ish lbs, unemployed, divorced, father of 2 from separate women, disabled (unable to walk w/o walkers and talk like a scrambled drive-thru thing)- and i STILL managed to get a girl! as heaven said, just STOP trying. lose ANY & ALL expectations! that allows you to be open and available to whoever happens to take a liking to you.
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