We have all been in relationships that just didn't work out and they may have not worked out for many reasons. One of those reasons may have to do with the sex. I am not saying that when sex is the reason that it is any ones fault by any means because pointing fingers is bad and not a means to an end. However, here are some factors you should consider when trying to find that certain someone to be sexually active with.
Factor #1 Stamina
I might as well begin with that one of the factors that most men dread to talk about. That's right folks, stamina. If you are not able to please your partner or please each other than things are likely to go sour in the bedroom. Some individuals have the ability to sustain super long erections, orgasm multiple times and then some others are not able to even get hard for two seconds or cum even once in a while. In order for two people to be compatible they must be able to react to unfortunate situations like this in an open manner and discuss things.
Factor #2 Experience
Have you had multiple sex partners? Threesomes? Group Sex? No sex at all? Sometimes experience is a big factor in a relationship. Its always nice for individuals to explore their sexual fantasies and to be open with each other. But sometimes the mix between a sexually experienced individual and a non experienced individual makes it difficult to fulfil each others desires. Time and patients as well as openness must exist if this is the case to keep both parties satisfied.
Factor 3# Size
Okay guys, here is another one you hate to hear about. That's right its size! I'm referring to physical body size as well as genital size. We are each built differently as human beings and that is certainly a great thing. But, sometimes its just impossible to make things physically work sexually between two people due to size differences. I am not trying to be rude here so please do not take this that way, but sometimes sex with incompatible individuals due to size can be like "throwing a hot dog down a hall way" or "feeding a tic tac to a whale". This is absolutely no ones fault and sometimes this is just the case. If you find someone and you both "feel right" and sexually satisfied than that is amazing! If not then keep searching.
If you have haven't found that special individual that you are sexually compatible with then my final words are just keep searching because you are not alone and you will find someone one day. :)
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Tongueman / 56 / Man / Likes Women / Single
In my opinion a couple of bigger factors are not mentioned in this post.
Religious and / or moral beliefs on sex and what a person has taken as their opinion of what is "normal" or "proper" sexual activity. A long with this is the opinions on how important sexaul compatibility should be to the relationship.
Also the willingness to consider different viewpoints as normal and legitimate along with the ability for the parties to work together to reach a mutually acceptable sexlife together. If a person enters a relationship with preconceived ideas on these issues and will not open up to the possibility their partner may not be sexually satisified in a relationaship with them because of differing viewpoints there is no potential for improvement of the sexual compatibility in that relationship.
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