Although for hundreds of years the Western world has depicted men as thinking of sex in terms of only their own pleasure and desire while women were depicted as being disinterested in sex or viewing it as a necessary evil, science has shown in the last several years that sex is important for both genders for multiple reasons. One of the most interesting discoveries have concerned how regular, frequent sex can actually help a woman be healthier – and, yes, happier – than those who engaged in intercourse seldom or on an infrequent basis.
Sex can make women’s lives better in general…
For instance, oxytocin is a hormone that acts as a neurotransmitter in the brain. Both men and women experience general happiness due to the increased levels of oxytocin during sexual relations. However, a recent study showed that women specifically might be able to fend off depression through exposure to semen.Similarly, studies have shown that sex helps to promote better sleeping habits among both men and women alike because of, again, hormones like endorphins that the body releases which help people to relax.
Sex makes women healthier!
Sex also has positive effects on a woman’s immune system, because having sex two or more times per week can result in a significant increase in the production of immunoglobulin, which is an antibody that helps people fight off infections and colds. Similarly, having sex during her menstrual cycle can relieve menstrual discomfort and reduce the chances of a woman developing endometriosis, which is a painful inflammation.
Know the details of a woman’s body
Beyond the positive health effects that regular sex has on a woman’s body, there are other things that men and woman should both know about a woman’s body that will improve the pleasure she experiences. For instance, while it may difficult for men to imagine, many women are not necessarily intimately familiar with their own bodies. This is due primarily to the fact that while men’s genitalia is external, women have both internal and external genitalia. For example, many women know so little about their genitalia that they simply call it their vagina, while in actuality the vagina is an internal sex and reproductive organ. Rather, what women usually are referring to is their vulva, which is the collective name for the collective external sex organs including the labia major and minora, the clitoris, and the mons pubis.
Understand the clit
While men are generally aware that the clitoris is the female’s equivalent of a penis, they may not be aware of exactly how sensitive this sex organ can be, even when it’s aroused. The clitoris has more than 8000 nerve endings bundled in a very small part of the body, which is more than twice the number of nerves in the penis – which is much larger. Even though most women experience orgasm through stimulation of the clitoris, it’s important for her partner to understand that the organ is extremely sensitive; in fact, it can even be painful if the clitoris is engaged without enough lubrication or direct, aggressive contact is made.
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Christopher6 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Obviously, the act of sex is the most physically intimate act that two people can share. Especially in the beginning, some people are nervous, hesitant, or simply not really certain about what to do. The most intelligent thing that a person can do is learn about the act of sex, how a man and a woman's bodies function, and what works best for excellent sex. Very few people are ever given this information. Everyone should find good articles or books that do offer the necessary knowledge. The problem is that we are never taught about the subject, and not many good sources of detailed information exist. One great place to find detailed information is the website, Howtohavesexlikeamaster.com.
Advice_from_an_auntie / Woman / Likes Men / Single
another great thing to do is to ask and try. every body is different. so kiss the inner groin, inside the hip area toward the belly and see how your lover likes a long slow lick with the rough of the tongue, or a little bite, or a series of sucks with the lips that head... down there or up to the rib and the nipples. try that all over the body....find out what makes them go WoW...sigh. And the clit... people don`t seem to talk about the fact that it has a long forked root that extends back towards the vaginal opening. Even more than the clit swelling, if those roots swell, you have a really good lubricated tight situation with maximum stimulation going on for both parties. That is what being "swollen" is all about. Its fun to stroke those roots, either in masturbation or in partner sex.
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