I'm a sexually active guy who loves women. I started to have an open relationship with an awesome girl. It was going good for a couple of months, and then once I started having sex with other people, she completely cut me off. I don't mind if she goes out with other guys; that's what we agreed on. But, once I started telling her about one girl I had sex with, she walked away from me. Now, I don't say anything about the other chicks I see, but I know that she's still uncomfortable by it. I don't know what to do. I'm really into her and I was so happy to find someone who didn't mind if I pursued sex outside of our own bedroom. When we talked about it, she said that she would want to hear about the other women; I didn't want to hear about the sex she was having without me. What the hell happened? Why is my girlfriend suddenly so pissed that I'm seeing other women?
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Bob_sagat / Woman / Likes Men / Single
She's jealous.
Xxxmdkxxx / Woman / Likes Men / Single
I have an open relationship with my girlfriend. I've never had an experience like that but what I can tell from it all is that she simpley thought that she could handle it and she can't. You need to stop seeing other wemon pronto and tell her that she's the best sex for you and really kiss some ass. Tell her that all you want to do is make her happy and if that means giving up the other girls then you'll do it. It's the only way to fix it or leave her.
Sexnthecity2000 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
One word: jealousy. Your girlfriend was enjoying spending time with you and getting to have sex with you. She thought she would be into you have sex with others, and even hearing about them, but turns out she is not. This could be because she never experienced an open relationship before, and didn’t realize how it would make her feel, or because her feelings for you have gotten stronger, and she no longer wants to share. Some things to consider: if she having sex with other guys? Does she want you to stop having sex with others, or does she just not want to hear about it? If so, would you stop having sex with others and change the boundaries of your relationship to stay with her? I would have an honest talk with her, and see if what she wants has changed. If so, than it is up to you both to see how you can work things out.
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