Lmao, you'll stay hard hun. It'll feel too good not to. If you fall flat, it'll only be because you guys have stopped playing around for too long. If that's the case, masturbate a little bit to get him hard again and then go to town. If you genuinely cannot stay hard, it may be a medical problem. Then you should seek advice from a doctor.
If you can stay hard for more than 60 seconds when you masturbate, you are probably OK with her.
Make it all about satisfying her needs for the first 45 minutes. Then all you will need is 60 seconds...
First, stop worrying.
Second, stop masturbating for two weeks before hand. Leave it alone for a while. If you are new at this, you will probably spout off long before you get soft.
Don't let yourself get nervous. Don't even think about not being able to get hard. The anxiety can kill the mood for you and her, and make it hard to stay focused on staying hard. Try not masturbating for a while. You'll want it that much more when she's standing naked in front of you. Don't watch porn at least for a while. Women are beautiful, especially when they're naked. If you watch a lot of porn before you have sex, you could subconsciously develop an unreasonable standard. And regardless of how beautiful she is, if she doesn't look like the girls in the videos, it might be hard to get hard. Or if she's into it, you could watch porn during sex if you have/want to, though I wouldn't suggest bringing this up right away.
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AskMyGF / 22 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Lmao, you'll stay hard hun. It'll feel too good not to. If you fall flat, it'll only be because you guys have stopped playing around for too long. If that's the case, masturbate a little bit to get him hard again and then go to town. If you genuinely cannot stay hard, it may be a medical problem. Then you should seek advice from a doctor.
Booboo / Woman / Likes Men / Single
If you can stay hard for more than 60 seconds when you masturbate, you are probably OK with her.
Make it all about satisfying her needs for the first 45 minutes. Then all you will need is 60 seconds...
First, stop worrying.
Second, stop masturbating for two weeks before hand. Leave it alone for a while. If you are new at this, you will probably spout off long before you get soft.
Third, stop worrying.
Hard_again / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Don't let yourself get nervous. Don't even think about not being able to get hard. The anxiety can kill the mood for you and her, and make it hard to stay focused on staying hard. Try not masturbating for a while. You'll want it that much more when she's standing naked in front of you. Don't watch porn at least for a while. Women are beautiful, especially when they're naked. If you watch a lot of porn before you have sex, you could subconsciously develop an unreasonable standard. And regardless of how beautiful she is, if she doesn't look like the girls in the videos, it might be hard to get hard. Or if she's into it, you could watch porn during sex if you have/want to, though I wouldn't suggest bringing this up right away.
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