I have had a few sexual encounters with a co- worker. We sneak around (he is married) about once every month or so. I love the excitement of sneaking around and having a no strings attached "fuck buddy". I feel bad for cheating after the fact but keep doing it again. I dont have feelings, other than friendship,for my co-worker, just enjoy the physical aspect. The issue is it has always just been oral sex. He says I give great head. The last time we hooked up we went all the way and had sex, it wasnt that great for me. He said it was awesome and finished rather quickly. Well, about a week ago he told me that he had to be faithful so he could not be around me alone b/c he didnt trust himself. I told him I could respect that decision. SO how do we go back to a good work relationship? We agreed in the beginning that we would stay cool about it no matter what, so why is he being all weird. We are adults and I am fine with the whole situation, so what is his issue ?
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Jenny / Woman / Likes Men / Single
It's up to the both of you to get rid of the ackwardness and move forward with your "work" relationship. This will prove difficult since it is nearly impossible to maintain a frienship with someone with whom you've been intimate with however, you don't necessarily have to be friends. It's very easy to say you won't be weird with each other prior to getting busy but what's done is done, and he has made a decision to be faithful to his wife. If I were you I would continue to be cordial but not try start up or maintain a "friendship" since you've already been intimate and he's already showing signs of immaturity by acting strange. His issue is that he's a married man and most likely feels guilty about cheating on his wife. I suggest finding another coworker or fuck buddy who can give you the attention you deserve (unmarried of course). Happy hunting!
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