Making out can be a very pleasurable experience without going “all the way.” Whether you are not prepared for a fully sexual relationship or are just wanting to take it slow because it is the beginning of a relationship, making out can be a great way of getting to know your partner’s body and physical responses better. Because people often think of making out as revolving around kissing, they’re often uncomfortable about what to do with their hands during a make out session. Hands do, however, play an important role in a pleasurable make out session.
Set the rules for the hands
The first thing you will need to do is establish some guidelines regarding hands. This does not have to be done verbally, though, which could make for an awkward discussion that takes the romance and passion out of the moment. Instead, if you find yourself uncomfortable with something your partner is doing with his or her hands, simply gently guide his or her hands to a part of your body that you are more comfortable with them touching.
Hold your partner’s face
That said, there are a lot of things to do with your hands when you are making out. For instance, you might want to try cupping your partner’s face with one or both hands. Another sensual option is to stroke or run your hands through your partner’s hair. You might also fondle your partner’s ear and neck, since those are very erogenous zones for both men and women.
Hold your partner’s body
Another you thing you can do with your hands is to hold your partner while you are making out. This will increase the sense of closeness between the two of you and help you stay in your own world without any outside distractions. Consider stroking or lightly rubbing your partner’s back with one hand as you hold him or her with the other, which will add another tactile dimension to the make out session.
Go further with your hands
If you and your partner are both prepared to go a little further when making out, then you can stroke each other’s breasts either above or below clothing. Women should keep in mind that the nipples are a very erogenous zone for men, too, since there are a lot of nerve endings at that part of the body. Stroking, squeezing, and lightly brushing your partner’s nipples will add a whole new erotic and sensuous dimension to the time you are making out.
The aggressive hands method
If you are interested in having a particularly passionate make out session, be a bit more aggressive with your hands. For instance, rather than simply cupping your partner’s head you might hold it. Similarly, show how aroused and into the moment you are by grabbing his or her shirt and pulling them to you in a passionate embrace. Keep in mind, however, that there is a difference between making out and groping. Many people – women in particular – find aggressive groping of their breasts unpleasant and painful, especially since they can be quite tender.
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