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Who is Afraid of a Big Penis? I am!
Question Asked by Jasmine about 1 year ago - [ Ask a Question ]
Help a virgin out! I haven't had sex before and haven't masturbated much. I'm 19 and can count how many times I touched myself on one hand. Now, I'm dating this really cool guy whose cute and funny and everything wrapped in a neat little bow... not to mention that he is insanely well hung! His cock has to at be 9 inches, if not more. I know this is a lucky find for any girl, but for a virginal girl like me his monster penis frightens me. I'm afraid sex is going to hurt with him. I want to lose my virginity, but I don't want to suffer for it. How can I get over my fears and have sex with my boyfriend and his big dick?
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Losing your virginity should be a special experience you remember forever—but hopefully not for the pain! Sounds like you are really into this guy, so you might want to do some things before you have sex with him. At home by yourself, start exploring. Get yourself relaxed, in the right frame of mind, and feeling sexy. Videos or sexy pictures could help you with this—or maybe thinking about that hot boyfriend! Get some lubricant (KY or Astroglide) and put a little on your fingers. Start to work with your clit, and make your way into putting one finger inside yourself. You might want to keep experimenting this way, seeing how far you can let yourself go. Since you are the one controlling everything, you can decide how far in you want your fingers. Then, when you are with your boyfriend, have him try this with his fingers.
When it comes time to have sex with him, use positions that will allow YOU the most control, such as you on top of him. That way, you can direct how much of his penis goes inside. Stay away from doggie style and positions where he might be really deep, since those could hurt at the beginning. Take things slowly, and again, don’t be afraid to tell your new beau about your nerves. Have some lube on hand, and have fun!
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by mary about 1 year ago
sex is scary for the first time for alot of girls! hehe i was so afraid! But here's my advice - start with non penetrative sex for a while. it'll help you discover what makes you feel good and its fun! then he can use his fingers to penetrate you and that'll ensure your hymen is broken. and again, its fun. Then when youre ready for penetrative sex, use lube and be turned on. Coz when youre turned on your vagina becomes bigger and prepares for the penis. and listen, when i lost my virginity, its not a pain as such, but like, a pressure. if he pushes in a centremetre at a time, then stop and wait, then another centremetre, then stop and wait , til its all the way in (its what we did) then everything goes smoothly and painlessly! trust me. and you know, accept taht the first time you have sex wont be glamourous. but if you love him, please dont be scared. it'll be wonderful if you love him
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by ExoKisa about 1 year ago
You will need lots of foreplay and maybe some lube. If you want to take extra precaution, start practicing with a dildo. It would be ideal to practice with something that is about the same size as your boyfriend but in this case I think that's a bit unrealistic, especially since you don't seem too attuned to your own body sexually. It will help you immensely to get very well acquainted with your feminine parts. Make it your business to discover what turns you on, how you like to be touched and where. This will make it a lot easier for your boyfriend too. No matter how much experience he's had, it's always nice to be pointed in the right direction. Be safe and have fun.