Question
posted 4 months ago
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my first time my ex boy friend did not pop my cherry but the second time i did it with my friend and he popped my cherry....(he's a lot bigger than my ex but yea) who did i lost my virginity to????
Just to clarify popping your cherry doesn't signify weighed or not virginity has been lost. Yes while a lot of girls do have a cherry not all do. So the guy you had sex with first is who took your virginity but the new guy popped your cherry.
4 months ago
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
.......ok, plain and simple (because mariah's post was full of run-on sentences and confusing) your ex, who you had sex w/ first, took ur virginity. the 2nd guy broke your hymen.
Neither likely popped your cherry so to speak, as in your hymen. Likely the second partner was just too big for your vagina and pushed in too hard and fast for your vagina to adjust properly causing tearing and bleeding.
4 months ago
Vicki Nguyen ·
so hong long do my vagina heals? its still bleeding ^^ i mean he is huger than my ex so im worried that this friend, might make my bleed again...
Tiresias ·
To add to MonkeyBoy's statement, in most women the hymen is never completely lost until they give birth vaginally. It can be, and often is ruptured the first time you have sex, but unless you're into some freaky stuff you'll always have it until childbirth finishes it off.
Sexy ·
if u dont like it y u care is a free world or not shit i do it ma way n how i want if u dont lake it i dont kare n write how ever i want n wut up now huh...
Sexy ·
vicki your welcome u should hit me up some time and we should talk more (but some were that everyone sees lol
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) ·
uh......dude, i won't even try to compete w/ ur stupidity. have a nice day.
Use better and more lube tell him to start slow. Foreplay it is for more than just pleasure. Maybe start with a finger do a stirring motion in your vagina to loosen it up. My partner is also tight, she gets tight again every time some woman are just like that. But the key really is that you need to relax, maybe have a glass of wine you are likely nervous or tense and this causes it to be tight.
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Mariah / 19 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
Just to clarify popping your cherry doesn't signify weighed or not virginity has been lost. Yes while a lot of girls do have a cherry not all do. So the guy you had sex with first is who took your virginity but the new guy popped your cherry.
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · .......ok, plain and simple (because mariah's post was full of run-on sentences and confusing) your ex, who you had sex w/ first, took ur virginity. the 2nd guy broke your hymen.
Mariah · Actually it wasn't for once! So XP
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · no, it was (that's why i said it!) =P
Mariah · Alright whatever you say grammar police
MonkeyBoy / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married
Neither likely popped your cherry so to speak, as in your hymen. Likely the second partner was just too big for your vagina and pushed in too hard and fast for your vagina to adjust properly causing tearing and bleeding.
Vicki Nguyen · so hong long do my vagina heals? its still bleeding ^^ i mean he is huger than my ex so im worried that this friend, might make my bleed again...
Tiresias · To add to MonkeyBoy's statement, in most women the hymen is never completely lost until they give birth vaginally. It can be, and often is ruptured the first time you have sex, but unless you're into some freaky stuff you'll always have it until childbirth finishes it off.
Vicki / 20 / Woman / Likes Men / Single
lol thank you for all of you guys' advice. >.<
Sexy · hey you look super gorgeous and cool girl would you like to talk to me and be friends if u will like??/
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · sexy, sext, sexy........smoothe......dude, you don't hit on a girl then ask her to be friends. what are you? 5?????
Vicki Nguyen · lol thats funny but thank you for the gorgeous
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · and you reward him......and people wonder why this world's going down the toilet......
Vicki Nguyen · lol i have no problem with him calling me pretty ^^
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · it's not thet he called u gorgeous, it's that he did it while hitting on you stupidly......
Vicki Nguyen · lol
Sexy · if u dont like it y u care is a free world or not shit i do it ma way n how i want if u dont lake it i dont kare n write how ever i want n wut up now huh...
Sexy · vicki your welcome u should hit me up some time and we should talk more (but some were that everyone sees lol
Adrian ( Resident A-hole) · uh......dude, i won't even try to compete w/ ur stupidity. have a nice day.
Sexy · hahaha dont try 2b wut ur not
MonkeyBoy / 35 / Man / Likes Women / Married
Use better and more lube tell him to start slow. Foreplay it is for more than just pleasure. Maybe start with a finger do a stirring motion in your vagina to loosen it up. My partner is also tight, she gets tight again every time some woman are just like that. But the key really is that you need to relax, maybe have a glass of wine you are likely nervous or tense and this causes it to be tight.
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