Too many women come off to guys as push-overs unable to tell their guys what they want or when something is happening to them their guy should know. Vary often this leads guys to wonder whether women even themselves know what they want and need or whether the inky waters of the feminine soul run so deep and dark women themselves get lost in it. In this How To I will give three reasons why a women who is confident, tells her man directly what she wants to tell him and takes a more active role in their relationship is more attractive to men than the opposite:
1. Confidence makes women better in bed. Many men complain of woman not taking enough initiative in bed and being too passive to fully enjoy sex with. Tell your man what you want him to do (so long as its not bossy or bitchy, just be nice/sexy about it), figure out for yourself what pleases him and what pleases you and take over the action sometimes by, for example, putting yourself in a sex position that suggests to him what you want. Initiate oral sex on your own initiative, mount him without warning from time to time and have fun by mildly dominating him in bed sometimes, by for example pushing him into bed, being on top of him wile groping, grinding and kissing him and pushing his hands and head to where you want them, such as on your breasts or pussy.
2. Confident women are easier to understand. As I said earlier women often don’t appreciate how mystifying they can seem to guys. One easy way to de-mystifying themselves (and then only to whatever extent they want to) is to be more direct and upfront in saying what they think, feel and want from their man. Also like I mentioned above don’t be domineering, bossy or bitchy about it, just do it in a pleasant, slightly sexy way which is more explicit than “hinting” or “suggesting to” to him or “pointing him in the right direction” of what your thinking (which most guys are far to dense to understand or even pick up on).
3. Confident women are simply HOT. They gleam with a certain self-confident radiance which guys can notice from a long way off. Confidence makes a woman special, unique and a rare gem that guys, at least self-confident guys who can handle a self-confident woman, will be drawn to.
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